Post Date December, 03 2023
I originally had a happy family, but I don't know when my husband's attitude changed significantly. Eventually, we embarked on the path of divorce. I originally wanted to start over, but after understanding the truth, I only had hatred in my heart and couldn't calm myself down. It was because of my best friend that my marriage took this step. I can forgive my husband's betrayal and accept the family changes after divorce, but I can't accept my closest sister betraying me with my husband, and I'm still in the dark, the last person in the world to know.
It is often said that the most poisonous woman is the human heart. She has been using my trust in her to dig holes for me and incite me to divorce my husband. I even hate myself very much, it's really foolish enough. After a year, I didn't know and even helped people sell it for money. Looking back on the past, in fact, my husband is not that bad either. He reminded me not to have too much contact with her and told me to learn to think with my brain... I was originally a very sharp woman, and she always said bad things about my husband in front of me, making me always think bad of him. I know that my husband used to love me a lot, but later said that I was too sensitive, and it was tiring to be together, I am also someone who doesn't like being forced by others. Although I hesitated a bit when he proposed a divorce, I still didn't hold back. She said that truly loving someone should make them happy. But during the Spring Festival, I heard from my classmates that they were together. When I rushed over, she never showed up and was hiding from me. Later, I asked my husband and he admitted that they had been together for a long time. I said to him in front of his second uncle, 'You can be with any woman, but you must not be with Xiaocen, otherwise either she will die or I will die, and I will not be in peace as a ghost.'.
What should I do anyway? I have thought about suicide, but I can't bear to part with my family. But I can't let go of this matter, it must be with hatred for the rest of my life.
Xiaomei:
The depth of love, the pain, especially when one trusts two people to unite and deceive oneself, the feeling is indescribable. But as an adult, a young person who still has a strong attachment to their family and a passion for life, we should learn to heal our own wounds. We should not make mistakes again if we miss one, and we must not torture ourselves with the mistakes of others.
The reason why your marriage is like this today is not entirely due to your secret, but the main responsibility lies with you and your husband. If you can be more prepared, if he can have more immunity and sense of responsibility, I think no matter how hard she is, it won't be difficult to ruin your marriage. So if there is a problem with marriage, the internal cause is the main cause, and you should not record all the unhappiness and hatred in your heart on her. The best medicine for forgetting hatred is still time. Time will make you forget everything and make you love yourself more than before. Perhaps making yourself better off than them is the biggest revenge for them. Hate is a terrible thing, it can only make people more painful, make the hated more happy, and see your embarrassment more clearly.
