My boyfriend and I forced a kiss when we met each other. Do we still want to continue with him

Reader's Letter:

Hello, Brother Shan, I have a boyfriend from Sichuan now. His former girlfriend helped him give birth to a child, but due to various reasons, he did not register with that girl. Now the child belongs to the female partner, and they have been separated for a few years. Now, through a friend's introduction, I met him and became together with him.

The first time we met, he wanted to hug me, the second time he forced a kiss on me, delivered it to my doorstep and didn't want to leave. He wanted to stay at my place for the night, and after meeting a few times, he was always flirting with me. Afterwards, through communication, I became less presumptuous, and as an adult, I would feel that he might have liked me too much to be like this.

After spending some time together, I went to his house and accidentally discovered an adult inflatable doll in his wardrobe. In fact, I can understand that he himself has a cleanliness habit and may not necessarily go outside to find a lady, but now that he is with me, should I take some things? What kind of psychological activity is he? Is this kind of man worth it for me to continue dating him? Brother Shan, please advise.

reply:

Hello, thank you for your trust in Brother Shan. I really want to ask you now, what kind of friend would introduce such a man to you? Is she friendly enough? Firstly, this man gave birth to a child with his ex girlfriend without registering, which is called irresponsible and irresponsible; Secondly, it is impolite for him to hug you the first time he meets you, and to kiss you forcefully the second time he meets you is like playing a hooligan; Thirdly, he always shows disrespect to you every time he meets; Fourthly, his love for playing with inflatable dolls is somewhat perverted. It means that a man without self-control and frivolity, you would think he really likes you too much? You're too naive, girl!

Finding a boyfriend is something that needs to be treated with some care. If you are not responsible for the other party, you must be responsible for yourself. You can't just dig into the basket and make dishes. You don't choose at all. Are you so insecure about your own conditions, afraid that you won't get married in the future?

Personally, I think you need to carefully choose to continue dating this man. He has poor self-control, is not a good person, and lacks the necessary cultivation to get along with others. In the future, you will know how insecure it is to be with such a man for a long time.

In short, in the love stage, it is necessary to carefully consider every detail of the person, see if they are worthy of trust, have basic respect for you, and truly love you. Do not blindly bring them into your marriage as your life partner, otherwise, it may be too late to regret later.