Post Date December, 03 2023
How many minutes is better
Those few minutes are considered qualified men, and a few minutes are considered strong? Xu Yi's answer was very direct and without standards. He said, just like girls nowadays often set a height standard of 175 centimeters or more when looking for boyfriends. In fact, who stipulated this, whether there is an authoritative medical explanation or not, there is no spectrum. The girl will make this decision purely out of her own psychological requirements.
The same is true for sexual problems. In addition to the clear medical definitions of impotence and premature ejaculation, the optimal length of sexual life can only be coordinated by both men and women regardless of ethnic factors.
People's desire has not decreased, but their energy has decreased
This year, Professor Pan Suiming of Renmin University of China surveyed the sexual life status of 3824 men and women aged 20-64 in 60 urban and rural areas across the country. The results showed that 28.7% of married or cohabiting men and women lived less than once a month, and 6.2% did not even have a one-time life in the past year. Is it that modern people's desire has decreased? Xu Yi said, absolutely not. The decrease in the frequency of sexual life is not due to a decrease in human desires, but rather to the increasing consumption of modern people. KTV, cinemas, bars, nightclubs... The constant expansion of entertainment life has drained many people's energy.
With the acceleration of the pace of modern life, there is increasing pressure from work, family, economy, and other aspects, especially for men. As a result, many people suffer from psychological imbalances, resulting in mental anxiety and depression. Researchers have found that depression can lead to ED, which is more likely to occur when anxiety and depression coexist.
Women who are too men can be ineffective
The story you see below is definitely not a fiction. It happened not long ago that a young couple who had just been newly married found Xu Yi. His wife was beautiful, and his husband was handsome. He said he would be fine after two months of marriage, but then his husband suddenly became ED. Xu Yi asked two people separately, and it took a long time to figure it out.
It turns out that for this couple, the wife is more temperamental, and the husband is used to accommodating because he loves her. "Every time I have sex, my wife doesn't resist. When my husband touches her, she pretends to sleep. When my husband acts louder, she immediately sits up and says coquettishly, 'Nao, you woke me up.'". If you want to do it, you can help me buy an LV bag tomorrow... Many times, it's just a request in advance. "My husband is becoming increasingly worried, and every time I think about what my wife will ask for this time, over time, it won't work.".
Xu Yi said that things like this are definitely not jokes. There are many things in life, and women's actions depend on time and occasion. To help their husband recover like this, women have to pay a considerable price.
Is he a fake ED for you
Some middle-aged men take a few days off at home for a long vacation, and their erectile function is fine. As soon as they continue to work and toil away, they begin to become "ineffective" again. What is the matter?
Xu Yi said that there are various clinical manifestations of ED, among which some erectile dysfunction manifestations are not a true reflection of male sexual function, but are caused by the influence of certain reasons, causing men to temporarily perform abnormally, or women to unilaterally express dissatisfaction with their male sexual function, which is medically known as "situational impotence.". In popular words, it is "fake ED".
Why does this happen? Xu Yi said that among them, erectile dysfunction was caused by dysfunction of the mental and nervous systems. The causes of onset often include high stress, overwork, fear, depression, anxiety, shock, guilt, tension, and other mental stimulation factors, even in the midst of vigorous middle age. These factors are often caused by women's excessive demands on men and lack of understanding of sexual knowledge. Secondly, when they are transitioning from having no sexual demands to having conscious demands, they may misjudge some issues, and may regard certain normal phenomena as abnormal ones. As a result, many "fake ED" male populations have emerged.
Xu Yi said that the "machine" of these men does not have any problems, but the problem is that the controller does not have sexual skills and cannot effectively start the "machine". In other words, if the woman can cooperate well and improve her sexual skills, rather than constantly giving her husband an "ED" diagnosis, most "ED husbands" will perform well.
