Post Date December, 03 2023
From a woman's perspective, the nine criteria for a modern perfect husband are summarized as follows:
1、 Can help share family affairs.
Don't assume that family affairs are the prerogative of women. Many wives go to work early and come back late, but are they still tired when they return home? I can imagine the physical and mental tiredness of buying vegetables, cooking, caring for children, and taking care of household chores. If the husband can understand his wife and take the initiative to help share family affairs and reduce the burden on her, it will make her feel that he is using his actions to show his love.
2、 Respect your wife and treat her equally.
Equality between husband and wife and respect for their wives are the minimum attitudes. If you treat this wife as a "woman with long hair and short knowledge" and talk to yourself about everything, male chauvinism is very important (unless your wife likes it). If you don't seek her opinions, respect some of her opinions, or ignore some of her expectations at all, it's easy to create a sense of inequality for her, which naturally makes her feel uncomfortable.
3、 Have a strong sense of family responsibility.
He can work tirelessly for the happiness of this family. A man's strong sense of responsibility for his family often manifests in his enthusiasm for work. Under this sweet burden, he diligently strives to improve the quality of his family. Marrying an industrious man may make some women "crazy" because they don't have much time to spend with her, but marrying a man who doesn't want to make progress and doesn't have the ability to struggle has no hope at all.
4、 Don't be generous to yourself and mean to others, don't be a "miser".
For the former, it is a manifestation of selfishness; For the latter, it is a sign of self-confidence. A good husband should not monopolize family finances unless your wife is willing to do so. Finance is the lifeblood of a family's economy. If a man treats silver as a miser and controls it closely, it often leads to his wife's "heart to guard against her husband", which leads to increased vigilance and attempts to save private money and build a "small treasury". Hehe, as a result, this marriage relationship has been weakened due to being too cautious. If the problem of Momey's dominance is not handled properly, it can easily become a source of family conflict.
5、 Caring for children and paying attention to education.
Children are the treasures of the family. The role of a father plays a very important factor in a child's healthy and happy growth. The love that fathers give their children, their care and education for them, can help children gradually follow their father's unique good personality from their father, and it is also beneficial for their healthy growth.
6、 Be considerate and considerate of your wife.
Sometimes when the wife is tired and in a bad mood, the husband can understand how to care for her, comfort and take care of her. Pay attention to your wife's emotional changes, the reasons for fluctuations, and express your love in a timely manner. Or a cup of hot tea, or a warm greeting, or a warm hug, many times a woman will be touched! She feels your warmth and love, and fatigue and unhappiness may soon be swept away.
7、 Emotional single-mindedness, not flirting with flowers and grass.
Men are known to be lecherous. Don't you see that when you see beautiful women on the street, most men need to take two more glances? But when emotions and reason collide, rational control is necessary. Once involved in an extramarital relationship, marriage
Love in marriage is no longer pure or beautiful. There are often two consequences: one is that men who know their mistakes and change them will inevitably feel guilty; The second is that if you indulge in it, the consequences will be even worse. If the wife is still in the dark, perhaps the conflict has not erupted. "If you are aware of it, it may also have the following consequences: 1. A" Hedong Lion "type wife will definitely show no mercy in order to avenge you and discredit you. It is common for her to split up with one pat;"; 2. A wife with a "dirty linen" style may feel aggrieved and secretly shed tears. Even so, they will hide their grievances in their hearts.
8、 Be courteous and spend more time with your family after work.
At least a prior explanation or explanation should be provided when going out for entertainment, so as not to make a phone call late when the family prepares delicious food and waits at home. While greatly disappointed, it makes women's food tasteless. When busy with work, enjoy being busy; After work, find more time to spend with your family and share happy family time. This is the performance of a good man who loves his family.
9、 Can be used as a mediator between mother-in-law and wife.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is now often related to the happiness and peace of the family. Whether the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be satisfactorily resolved depends on, in addition to the respective tolerance of the two women, whether the husband can act as a mediator is also crucial. If handled poorly and overly biased, it is more likely to exacerbate family conflicts.
