Of course, we have to admit that some defects are inherent in the bones, and even if you're tired to death, you can't change her. As the saying goes, "A born bone produces meat," or "If you are not a donkey at one year old, you will always be a donkey foal," or "If you are three years old, you will always be an old donkey foal." This is exactly the truth. Looking at the issue of divorce from a modern perspective, the author believes that if the wife cannot overcome and consciously correct the following 12 items, a man can give her a divorce certificate in good faith.
First: Ambition is always greater than love
Her heart swelled with a terrible desire for power and domination, like Nala and Wu Zetian, who wanted to "phoenix" on "dragon". "If you accidentally let her enter your enterprise, she won't cooperate wholeheartedly with you and be your right-hand man because of who you are. Instead, she will wholeheartedly control the lifeblood of the enterprise and gain absolute control of the enterprise, otherwise she won't be happy with it.". She will use all her skills to set obstacles for you. Once she has obtained the decision-making power of the company, she can turn her hands to the clouds and rain, even if your expenses and behavior are within her control. "By then, if you continue to laugh at yourself for" inviting wolves into the house, "I'm afraid the situation is over, and it's too late to regret.".
The second kind: keep making rumors, it's not enough to wear a green hat on a man
This type of woman is not born to be single minded. She is fond of dressing up, flirting and showering herself everywhere. The first goal of where to go is to attract men's attention. She regards men's praise as the highest honor and reward, and never stops making a splash and creating a "sensational effect". As her man, you will always be under the "attention" of others, and will always be a sympathetic "vulnerable" group.
The third type: specifically looking for your classmates or friends to fall in love
This kind of woman is not naturally cultivated enough and has a low moral standard. Without self-esteem, let alone respect what you love. In order to show off her charm to you, she specifically seeks out your acquaintances to flirt and even flirt. "If you don't pay attention, you will forcibly encounter the embarrassment of being" co wife "by a classmate or friend, and you will never be able to lift your head or stand up as a man.".
The fourth kind: expose your man's shortcomings in front of others, so that you don't have a half piece of shame cloth
This kind of woman is like a resentful woman, "bitter and bitter, bitter and bitter" as if she were too busy to write. "Never divide between inside and outside, seize a person and want to" complain ". I wish I could display all the stains you had 500 years ago in the sunlight. Even your sexual history and gossip should be vividly portrayed to outsiders. Moreover, the more your acquaintances are present, the stronger her desire to express and the more" thorough "you will be exposed.". She only did this to prove how virtuous and tolerant she was with your "unbearable" feelings. Who knows, this will make their men lose face, lose face, and lose their image.
The fifth kind: Always in front of you, drink five or six
These days, equality between men and women is advocated, but some women have overcorrected it. In marriage, it is generally manifested that her words are the supreme "imperial edict", important matters and small emotions. She decides the case alone, and you are only the ears of deaf people - "decorations". Moreover, she will treat slaves like a master and call you around. Public occasions and friends are no exception.
Type 6: Heavy suspicion
This kind of woman is a bit neurotic. She is accustomed to the "regularity" of your life, such as the time when she leaves work and returns home every day, how long she will walk on the road, and so on. Occasionally, if she is delayed or fails to arrive home or attend an appointment on time, she will exert her rich imagination, become suspicious, and even impose some unnecessary charges on you. No matter how much explanation is given, her doubts will not be solved. Sometimes she even hires someone or herself to track and "spy" on you, making you feel like walking on thin ice, facing an abyss, and panicking all day.
The seventh type: narrow-minded, small-minded chicken intestines
This type of woman is intolerant of others, even of your past love history or old lover. Once she has mastered your "situation", she will be bitter. When there is a disturbance, she will not hesitate to talk about your "history", or even go to your class or leader to make a big fuss, making you lose your head. It always gives you the feeling of being "caught in a pigtail" or "little tail" by someone else.
The eighth type: being ignorant and ignorant.
Such a woman can only go to the kitchen and never go to the hall. Otherwise, in public places, or when your distinguished guests with good taste come to visit or share drinks at the same table, within three sentences, she will definitely surprise you and make you sweat. "If it doesn't work out well, it will make guests feel like you've married a mountaintop cave person thousands of years ago.".
Ninth type: No matter what the occasion is
In front of the person she loves, a woman's occasional appropriate "whining" can add a sense of interest. "Because many men don't mind a woman they like playing coquettish with them, and even think that a woman who can play coquettish knows more about emotions. However, if this woman flirts with you regardless of the occasion or priority, for example, at a classmate's party, she wants to show her deep love for your female classmates or old lovers, hug your neck and kiss you as if no one else were there, while saying some juicy whispers,", "Or when you encounter her while performing official duties, she lunges forward crazily, exaggerates and flirts with you, ignoring the presence of your peers and superiors, which can cause you and those present to sweat!"!
The tenth kind: Even in Western restaurants, they will speak loudly and loudly, showing "lofty spirit"
This kind of woman is straightforward by nature and likes to exchange glasses with men at the wine table. She is used to making loud noises, so even when walking into a quiet and elegant Western restaurant, she does not pay attention to the atmosphere and occasions. She still speaks loudly as if in a situation where no one is around, with a loud laugh that she is unaware of, but has already attracted the attention of others, which will make you feel overwhelmed.
Eleven: Women who despise your parents and relatives.
She may love you very much, but she is full of criticism and even "hostility" towards your parents, relatives, or friends around her, which can reflect her inner unkindness. If you choose her, it means that you have to face the alienation between family, friends, and classmates. This can make your gains outweigh losses and fill you with disappointment.
Type 12: Without a sense of responsibility, easily leaving home
This type of woman has no real business, is lazy about housework, and has no concept of being a husband and a child in her heart. She dresses up beautifully and ostentatiously every day, or goes to play mahjong or shopping malls. She doesn't know where her goal in life is, and if she feels a little uncomfortable, she will flick her sleeves and slam the door and leave home, or go back to her mother's house or other relatives and friends' homes, or even hide behind other men under the pretext of choking off steam.