Post Date December, 03 2023
When it comes to men's infidelity, it's often said that they are promiscuous and irresponsible. In fact, there is a reason for men's infidelity, and women have been analyzing this issue. But why are men so obsessed with infidelity? What are the attractions of extramarital affairs that attract men to constantly make mistakes and pursue them? Now let's go and study together.
My inner desire surpasses youth
In traditional beliefs, only women are very concerned about their age and are eager to cover up the traces of time through makeup, clothing, beauty, and physical fitness. In fact, men also care about whether they are still young, energetic, and charming, which is also a competitive capital for men. However, their desire for eternal youth is much more hidden than that of women. Why do the vast majority of men find young and beautiful ladies as lovers? They want to prove that they still have charm and cannot be underestimated.
Display one's social status
To engage in extramarital affairs, one must first have money or power, because only in this way can one afford to find a lover. In the eyes of some people, a lover has become a symbol of status and status, just like a villa, a luxury car, or designer clothing. A beautiful lover seems to have become a live advertisement for a man with status. An ordinary employee in a joint venture, with a low income, has found that even the manager seems to have given him a different look since he had a lover. Men have a much higher degree of socialization than women, and are also more influenced by the environment and popular beliefs than women.
Satisfy oneself with the psychology of liking emotional appeal
The reason why men want to find a lover is not because their lover is much better than their wife, but because she is gentler, more beautiful, and caring for themselves than their first wife. They want to find a better woman. What we look for in our lover is a temperament, style, and style that is different from our wife's. We like our partner to bring a bit of mystery and allure, while our wives are already quite familiar with each other due to their long-term living together, without the beauty of distance. Our lover happens to meet their psychological needs.
Satisfy one's physiological needs
It should be said that this is the main purpose and greatest gain for men to engage in extramarital affairs, because in all extramarital affairs, not having much is a transactional nature. Men with normal sexual life view extramarital affairs as a curiosity; Men who are not satisfied with their sexual life transfer and vent their sexual desire through extramarital affairs. This also explains why men are so passionate about extramarital affairs, after all, physiological needs are the most instinctive needs of humans.
Make up for the emotional regrets of youth
Many people nowadays have wives who are not their most satisfied partners, so they will look for lovers after marriage and consider them as better marriage partners, but the proportion of these people is relatively small. After a life and death love affair, there are often complex emotional backgrounds, and such an affair leads to a relatively high proportion of divorces. So, it is advised that men and women should be cautious and cautious when facing such extramarital affairs.
In marriage, when a man is having an extramarital affair, as a wife, don't cry, make trouble, or hang yourself. This will only push him further and further away. A more correct approach is to first understand the reasons for a man's infidelity, and then take targeted measures based on the reasons.
