Post Date December, 03 2023
Today is really a "black weekend" for Xiao Hong. She was angry with her male colleagues in the office and quarreled with her husband when she came home from work. Xu Wen in the office and Xiao Hong's husband are classmates and friends, so Xiao Hong knows Xu Wen's details very well. When chatting in the office in the morning, the colleagues all praised Xu Wen for his full support for his wife to do a good job as a tour guide. He took on the heavy responsibility of housework and educating children. He can be called a "model husband". While Xu Wen was cheering everyone up, Xiao Hong said half jokingly, "Is it a standard for a model husband to beat his wife? His wife came to my house for refuge the other day.
Xiaohong, full of anger, went home and complained to her husband: "Xu Wen has been promoted to the section chief, and you? Are you more cowardly than him?" "Yes, I admit I am a incompetent person." The husband said angrily. "You are so ungrateful that you will never prosper. Following you, you will make me look bad!" Xiaohong said angrily.
"You are so unreasonable! You are so troublesome..." The husband seemed very unbearable and patted the table and scolded Xiao Hong loudly. Xiao Hong was accused by two men in one day, not to mention the others, mainly because she accidentally violated the man's psychological forbidden zone. From a psychological point of view, people often have a psychological forbidden zone in their hearts due to differences in physical, psychological and social experiences. Different people have different psychological forbidden areas and different sensitivity. Although men are stronger than women, they also have a weak side. There are some topics that they are most reluctant to talk about or mention. Women should understand some psychology. Whether they work with men at work or at home with their husbands, they should understand men's psychological avoidance, which is an indispensable part of women's friendship, love and career success. If you step on a man's "minefield" by mistake, you will be as unhappy as Xiao Hong today. The common sense of psychology tells us that men are often so sensitive to certain words involving their own evaluation that they are disgusted. For this reason, women must be very careful about the following topics about men to avoid embarrassing situations.
Don't laugh at his cowardice
Some men are timid, and sometimes they will be scared out of their wits or cry bitterly. The secret of men can be observed by women with her keen and careful eyes. But please don't laugh at him to his face. If you expose this secret, he will hate you for damaging his image as a man.
Don't judge his appearance
Men rarely compliment their physical appearance, which is more due to lack of self-confidence than to shyness. If you praise his appearance, he will have a positive attitude towards his body, will have confidence, and will be more poised to participate in social activities. But if your evaluation is not so favorable to him, it will make him feel inferior and even lead to strong anger, which cannot be underestimated in men.
Don't praise another man's achievements in front of him
Men are naturally competitive and never willing to admit defeat. Many men often envy another man's success. If a person, especially a woman, appreciates another man's achievements in front of him, it will make him think that he has been looked down upon, and you are deliberately belittling him.
Don't talk about his failure
For most men, it is "success" not to be considered as a loser by others. Here, success is not measured by winning but by "not failing". The reason why they are satisfied with "not failing" is that most men admit that there are only a few successful men in their hearts. Talking about his failure inevitably made him angry sometimes.
Don't talk about his role in the family
Although he is very open-minded, considerate to his wife and diligent in housework, the man subconsciously believes that gentleness and housework are harmful to the dignity of a man.
Don't laugh at men's impotence
Among all men's taboos, men's sexual impotence (impotence, premature ejaculation, small penis, etc.) is the biggest taboo. Once a man has any disturbance in his sexual function and hears gossip from others, the strongest man will become vulnerable. Have uncontrollable sexual distress, confusion and fear.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
