Post Date April, 15 2023
Have you ever considered why you became a leftover woman? There are many reasons for becoming a leftover woman, but you need to learn to find reasons from yourself, solve problems, and reap your own happiness. Generally speaking, leftover women are mainly women with higher perspectives, resulting in a situation where high cannot be achieved but low cannot be achieved. This requires an objective understanding of oneself, finding out one's own problems, and making oneself better, rather than living in a dream.
Of course, there are also some older girls who feel that they are the best and cannot see their own shortcomings and shortcomings, but it is precisely because of her narcissism that she is not likable.
2. Casual psychology
Talk about it, play it, play it, and scatter it. Treating love as a game and treating the other person like a monkey, without respecting love and the outcome of the other person, is like being abandoned by love and being abandoned by the other person.
3. Passive psychology
Enclosed in one's own small circle, afraid to venture out boldly, with limited exposure to people, the number of objects to choose from is becoming smaller and smaller, and the scope for one's own choices is also becoming smaller and smaller. Only when you go out bravely can you discover Xintiandi.
4. Fear mentality
Have you ever considered why you became a leftover woman? Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of a rope. Due to being hurt, I can no longer believe in emotions, especially love. Remember, love is inherently illusory and easily changeable, but not everyone is a love scammer. When fate comes, the person you hit comes, and true love comes.
5. Perfect psychology
Some older female youth choose their partners according to the patterns in movies, TV dramas, or textbooks. This is not just about finding partners, but also about finding idols. You know, idols cannot live a life. Living with idols really makes you nauseous.
6. Accommodating psychology
Due to the delay in finding the right person, many older female youth have gone from one extreme to the other, and under various pressures, have developed a mentality of casually finding a suitable one. This is not only irresponsible for oneself, but also irresponsible for the other half. Many marriages that make do are unhappy.
7. Reverse psychology
They idealize love and lack a sense of reality. They always hope that their love is as romantic as that described in the novel: when the moon is clear and the wind is clear, prince charming suddenly falls from the sky; Love at first sight, the flower of love suddenly miraculously shines brightly. It should be noted that marriage is about living a real life and choosing a partner with a down-to-earth attitude. Why waste your youth in your dreams?
8. Closed psychology
Many older girls are not good at socializing and are unwilling to take a proactive attitude towards marriage issues. They prefer to be alone, which leads to a small social circle and reduces their chances of choosing a partner.
Their mentality of waiting for volunteers to take bait only makes them particularly "elevated" and also makes a considerable number of men who are interested in them hesitant. Moreover, marriage is a two-way choice. If we keep our hands on it and turn it into a one-way street, wouldn't it be like we suddenly lose half of our chances?
