Post Date December, 03 2023
Nowadays, there are many leftover men and women after the 1980s in society. Why they become leftover men and women depends on their personal psychology. Let's take a look at why men are getting married.
Not ready for thought.
I think that the relationship between the two parties has not reached the point of marriage.
Not enough love for girlfriend.
Don't want to lose the whole forest.
Inadaptation to the change of their own roles. (Getting married and starting a career is a system to re-establish social identity.) The actual conditions are not enough and the pressure is high. (After marriage, he must shoulder the responsibilities of both families, and dare not make a rash commitment before he is sure.) Career is the most important. (To maintain competitiveness in the workplace, we need to concentrate.) In short, men have all kinds of needs and yearnings for being single. Oscar Wilde has long said: "Rich bachelors should pay heavy taxes. It is unfair to make some people happier than others."
Even if a man doesn't marry for various reasons, you don't have to cooperate with him. If you are determined to get married, you need to determine two things: 1. Whether the man you are dating is not going to get married. 2。 Do you want to wait for the unmarried man to change his mind. By the way, Carey got married in April this year.
Didn't you explicitly discuss marriage? Let's get to know his mind by doing a test. How many of the following are consistent with him?
I have a lot of fun. I will have a drink party with my friends every two days.
He is a "moonlight clan" who doesn't care about such topics as house prices and prices.
Many of your life habits are incompatible.
I have never sent you a very valuable gift.
Don't care about your family.
I often feel complacent in front of you. A girl has taken a fancy to him.
I think you are too dependent and don't like your interference with him too much.
The work is very busy, accounting for 80% of his energy.
I seldom take you to his friend's wedding.
I am used to living alone, and I really need to be alone.
You have lived together for more than one and a half years, or have been dating for more than three years.
Never blurted out "after we get married", "our children" and so on.
You know there is always another woman in his heart.
His original family is not happy.
His friends who know him well never said to you, "When will we get married?" "Wait for your good news."
You are vaguely worried that you are not worthy of him.
If you want to choose a word from "freedom" and "reliability" to describe him, you will choose the former.
Xiaobian reminds: If your man has three or more of the above conditions, you should say good-bye to him frankly. If you just want to play, that's OK.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
