Post Date December, 03 2023
The ideal image of a tough man like Takakura in the eyes of women has taught men not to cry lightly, so men have formed the habit of negating their emotions since childhood - knocking out their teeth and swallowing into their stomachs, revealing too much childlike love is a sign of weakness.
1、 Past emotional experience
In the men's circle, it is also a special way for men to show off how excellent and beautiful the women they once had around them are; But in the face of women now, they will never mention it easily, because the past is a matter of another world, even if it is unforgettable. What's more, even women with high quality and self-restraint will inevitably break the casserole for the past. If they encounter a "vinegar jar", wouldn't it be self-inflicted? Everyone will be curious about the past of the person he loves most. It is an instinct to have everything he loves. But once you know it, what will be left besides pain? Love needs sincerity, but it also needs secrets.
The so-called secret is to give love a space, let love breathe freely, and keep love fresh and mysterious. Finally, one day, when I had the courage to speak to him, he stopped me. He gently pressed my lips and said, "Don't say anything. Everyone will have the past. Without the past, there can be no present. No one has the right to trample on the green space of others' hearts at will.". Listen to the man's heart: love me, don't ask me about my past.
2、 Men's vanity
Men are all players. If a man likes racing and is the center of the football field, his charm will suddenly increase in front of women. So men have to have some real skills, and at the worst, they have to play one of them well, so as not to lose face in front of women. So there is a man who plays tennis for his girlfriend and secretly practices hard. The house can't be taken away, so there are men who spend all their money to buy fragrant cars to cheat. It is impossible to borrow a car or rent it for a day to satisfy their vanity.
In the middle school era, Maupassant's "Necklace", the wife of the vain civil servant, paid ten years of hard work for a necklace. At that time, vanity was the patent of women. After growing up, I realized that men are more vain than women. Women's vanity is superficial. A necklace can satisfy women's vanity. Men's vanity is intrinsic.
3、 Men's sexual anxiety
One theory is that a man will have a one-time fantasy every six minutes, and only when he is busy with it will he never think of it again. After thinking about it every six minutes for six consecutive days, men begin to need to do something about it, but few women will know about men's anxiety about sex. Many men have wondered in their hearts how big this thing can be once they have an erection before they have a chance to give the penis a try? They keep comforting themselves that the size is not the key - "it is not the size, but how you use it". But in fact, the problem of size has always troubled them.
In addition, men are afraid of women who are more skillful than him in bed. This kind of competition will make him afraid. Of course, when men can't, they are most afraid of women saying, "Are you sick?" As for prostatitis, impotence, premature ejaculation, hair loss, insomnia, kidney deficiency, heart palpitations, hemorrhoids, etc., all are bad names that men dare not face. In today's life, kidney deficiency seems to be very common among men, especially middle-aged men. Women's tears are gold. When a woman tells that her other half is not good, people will be very sympathetic. In contrast, men who can't do it seem to have committed an unforgivable crime. What they get is not sympathy, but disdain of the same kind and monster in the eyes of the opposite sex.
4、 Men's Child Psychology
The ideal image of a tough man like Takakura in the eyes of women has taught men not to cry lightly, so men have formed the habit of negating their emotions since childhood - knocking out their teeth and swallowing into their stomachs, revealing too much childlike love is a sign of weakness. If the Japanese cry when they encounter business failure or the dissolution of the Australian cabinet, it must be the headline news immediately. Do you know? Therefore, more men suffer from depression than women, and the suicide rate is higher than women. Every man has more or less an Oedipus complex, especially those who lack maternal love when they were young. They often snuggle in the arms of their beloved women in the dead of night. Of course, this complex will not spread everywhere. The woman in front of him must be his favorite and most trustworthy woman, because only in front of his beloved woman, he will feel safe.
Is it fresh that men also act coquettishly? In fact, this is a "play" that is often performed in life, but men are not willing to open it because of their "strong" face. But since women can be strong, why can't men be weak? This society is becoming richer and more inclusive. Why should we treat each other favorably? How tired it is to let a man act as a strong avatar all the time. Even if they can carry it by themselves, don't you feel distressed? Men are easy to grasp, no matter how many false appearances, as long as you love him, you can find his way from the infinite secret world behind him.
