Post Date December, 03 2023
Mr. Li has been married for three years, and his daughter is already two years old. For some reason, she has developed impotence. Li Jun said that in the first year of marriage, the couple had a harmonious and happy life, and in the second year, they had a "daughter". After giving birth, they had sexual intercourse with their wife, and he experienced premature ejaculation. The wife was not satisfied, and Li Jun secretly worried that he had reduced his sexual activity for various reasons, but it still didn't help. The more worried he was, the more premature ejaculation he became, and sometimes even before he really started. So he quietly went to the pharmacy to buy various tonics to take, and also sought treatment from a visiting doctor. Despite spending a lot of money, he did not find any therapeutic effect. His severe guilt and inferiority complex made him feel very depressed, and in the end, he became impotent.
After the doctor conducted various examinations for him, no diseases such as prostatitis were found. Mr. Li is not fond of smoking and drinking, nor has he taken any medication. It is estimated that he is suffering from functional impotence caused by psychological factors. As long as appropriate psychological treatment and certain medication are combined with instrument treatment, this functional disorder can be expected to recover.
In fact, Li Jun's occasional premature ejaculation phenomenon is very common in marital life. This phenomenon is generally due to excessive emotional excitement leading to extremely sensitive sexual reactions, causing the penis to be slightly stimulated after erection, and even achieving orgasm and ejaculation outside the female body. Sometimes fatigue, discomfort, or anxiety can also trigger premature ejaculation. As long as premature ejaculation does not occur frequently or is not caused by pathological factors such as prostatitis and seminal vesiculitis, there is no need to mind.
But Li Jun did not have the knowledge and experience in this area, so he became nervous. The first few premature ejaculation left a deep mark in his subconscious, and every time he had sex, he involuntarily thought of it, which made his subconscious nervous. This mark was taken seriously, and premature ejaculation occurred again. Over time, it gradually formed a conditioned reflex. This reflex deepens as the patient's negative emotions such as self blame, guilt, and anxiety worsen, entering a vicious cycle that ultimately leads to impotence. As long as appropriate treatment is given in a timely manner, the vicious cycle can be broken and a benign conditioned reflex can be reconstructed.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
