Post Date December, 03 2023
Dealing with the relationship between men and women has always been a problem. How to make the two get along better has always been a hot topic. This is not like some netizens saying that whoever earns more money has the right to speak, and whoever does not have the right to serve others. A strong marital relationship relies on spiritual integration and emotional maintenance, which has nothing to do with who is better than who, and more importantly, it has nothing to do with money.
1. Being obsessed with flowers and grass is not one-sided. Some men look at their loved ones before marriage, full of advantages; Looking at the person you love after marriage is all about flaws. This mountain looks at that high mountain, eating from the bowl and looking at the pot, as someone said: "The red flag at home does not fall, but the colorful flag floats outside. Not only do some wealthy men have this desire, but some men who have just finished their basic necessities also have this desire. The empathy of men is not only the most intolerable for women, but also for upright and responsible men. Which is unbearable!
2. Not striving for progress lacks backbone. Whether a man is rich or poor, stable or unstable in his job, for the vast majority of women, the most important thing is whether a man has a positive and optimistic attitude towards life and an enterprising spirit of never giving up. Some men have no goals or pursuits in their lives, and apart from necessary work, they just play games and chat online; Some people become disoriented when encountering setbacks, borrow alcohol to burn their sorrows, or break their jars, appearing very cowardly and unable to show a man's appearance. Even though families face many difficulties, men should be even stronger when they want to survive and continue their lives. If men cannot play the role of 'pillars' in the home, it will undoubtedly disappoint and disdain women.
3. Not sticking to small details is very messy. Every woman cares a lot about a man's external appearance, but some men are naturally messy. When dating before marriage, one can also pay attention to their own image and dress up in a dog like manner; Once married, it exposes a messy nature. Going out with my wife is unkempt, dressed in untidy clothes, picking my nose in front of an outsider, throwing things around the door, and so on. Such a man is something that women would hate from the bottom of their hearts.
4. Small bellies and chicken intestines are not generous. As a man, one should be able to afford and let go, but some men are narrow-minded and very stingy. Love to be true to one's own woman, to be sharp in every corner, to have a point of superiority in everything, and to determine who is right and who is wrong; Some men who manage money at home are particularly stingy with women's money and haggle over every detail; Even if sometimes women do wrong things, some men always hold grudges and occasionally turn over old accounts; Some men do not hurt others, and when they argue with each other, they do not admit defeat, do not say soft words, and cannot pull down their airs, resulting in a stalemate or even stalemate in the marital relationship.
5. Stubborn and not humorous. The pressure of work and the burden of life can sometimes make the atmosphere of a family quite heavy. Timely adjustment and activation of the family atmosphere, creating a relaxed and happy home atmosphere, men bear the main responsibility. But some men can't keep things in their minds, writing about their work troubles and interpersonal conflicts on their faces and bringing them home, infecting the entire family. There are also some men who lack knowledge accumulation and life wisdom, do not have humor, making family life dull and boring, which is also something women do not want to see. Men occasionally engage in teasing and humor, which not only injects "lubricant" and "seasoning" into the family, but also makes the family feel more secure and confident.
6. Often making excuses not to care about home. Some men have severe male chauvinism and always feel that doing household chores is a woman's responsibility, serving as the "hands off shopkeeper" at home. Don't go home when you're a little busy with work; It's a friend who walks away at the first call; No matter when your wife comes back or how tired she is, you still have to wait for her to cook; Even when the family truly needs critical moments, they cannot rely on or count on, and lack a sense of responsibility towards the family. There are very few men who truly "take their work as their home and career as their companion". As long as they handle it properly, they can completely balance home and work. A man who often makes excuses for not caring about his family is often a more dangerous man, and at this point, women should be more vigilant.
Whether it is the six things that men particularly care about women, or the six things that women cannot tolerate the most, these are just relative terms and must not be formalized or absolute. The most important way to handle the relationship between husband and wife is to empathize, think for each other more, and truly respect, understand, and tolerate each other. If we are clearly separated from the "Chu River and Han Realm" and are well behaved, then there must be a problem, and it is time to carefully review it. As long as there are no major principled issues such as sexual infidelity or infidelity, even the things that men are particularly concerned about or women cannot tolerate can be resolved through communication and communication, thereby making the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious and harmonious.
