Post Date December, 02 2023
What are men doing?
For a long time, men have dominated politics, business and family. Once individual women who pursue self-realization are found, they are immediately sought after by everyone, such as Hua Mulan and Wu Meiniang.
To be honest, there is also a subtle male chauvinism here, just like the love scenes in the film, women are more moving, but also from the perspective of men. With the change of the times, the world is more open and free to women. Their eyes are beyond the men who have stood in front of them for hundreds of years.
What are men doing now? In fact, like their predecessors, they are quietly doing their part as men: getting married, starting a career, and supporting the family. If I don't expect it, I just shake my lover's hand occasionally. Unfortunately, the territory is limited. In the face of confident women strutting forward, men have less and less territory.
Men are helpless
Although they seldom show their fatigue to women, they are really tired. Today's society is an era that only recognizes successful people, and the concept of success is relative to most mediocre people.
Men are eager for success, recognition, and excellence. But the cruel reality made countless fighters bow their heads. Success belongs to a few people, while most men can only empathize with fate.
Man's helplessness is a heavy thing. A man struggling in frustration is like Sisyphus pushing a big stone up the mountain. The boulder that was pushed to the top of the mountain rolled down, and the repeated efforts may face the despair and helplessness again and again. When struggle and hope become a broken bubble, men need no sympathy.
Men are vulnerable
Men are far less strong than women seem, but more sensitive than most women think. Men unconsciously find themselves living in numerous dilemmas. We have to sacrifice the quality of life for the quality of life; In order to gain a sense of security in life, the emotional space becomes increasingly cold and numb.
Men need care
Men need women's care just as women need men's love. A kind of care from women. It is a tranquilizer for men to get a moment's rest in the complicated world.
There are eight situations that men need women's care:
1. The loneliness of the night. In the dead of the night, I suddenly wanted to talk to someone, but all the calls I had to make seemed to be busy. At this time, if there is a considerate woman around, the mood will be better.
2. Frustrated. His talent was not recognized, and he was even fired by his boss, which made him feel "played by fate". At this time, women's appropriate comfort and encouragement are very important in men's psychology.
3. Emotional twists and turns. Lost in love, I found that the girl I love is actually my friend. Of course, a man cannot be trapped by love, but at this time, the love from the opposite sex will make him unable to refuse.
4. There is a dilemma. When there is a fork in the road, I am faced with important choices, but I can't make up my mind. At this time, women had better put away their pet and learn to care calmly.
5. Labor gap. Work late into the night. When finishing the task at hand and smoking the last cigarette, women's gentleness is the best care, just as the ancients said: "tea adds fragrance to night reading."
6. Illness haunts us. Men are not made of iron, and their bodies are not in good time. With the care of women, at least their feelings of pain will be relieved.
7. Be wronged. Although men just want to keep their faces clean, the feeling of being wronged and having no place to appeal should also be comforted by women.
8. Facing challenges. The joy of success needs to be shared, so before the struggle. Women's care also needs to be generous.
The eight situations that men least need women's care:
1. Need to be quiet. Not all words want to be spoken, and not all times are suitable for communication. It is necessary for every man to enjoy quiet alone.
2. Chat with people. When I met my confidant, I was in the middle of a conversation, but I met a woman who said, "Have a rest early.". This kind of concern almost makes most men unhappy.
3. Emotional excitement. A man is in a high mood or is in a rage. Women had better look far away from him and never pay attention to him. Even if they want to pay attention, they should wait for him to calm down. Otherwise, it will add fuel to the fire.
4. In front of friends of the opposite sex. When a man chats with other women, even if you are his closest person, it is better not to show this relationship to the fullest. Otherwise, it will not only embarrass him but also make him upset.
5. Encounter small embarrassment. For example, when eating on a formal occasion, he accidentally soiled his clothes, and the woman came to help him wipe them with loud cries, which enlarged the things that could have been empty in the past and added to his embarrassment.
6. The spring breeze is triumphant. A man's confidence is very important. When he succeeds, he needs a smiling face with the same joy as a woman, not a face with care and worry.
7. Concentrate on thinking. When thinking about problems, he should avoid being disturbed by others. Even the care of women will make him upset.
