1. Career is always the first
Although money is not everything, it is absolutely impossible without money. Although this sentence is very vulgar, it is absolutely reasonable. So before you are 30, please put most of your energy on your career.
2. Don't take money too seriously
Don't complain about your low salary, bank deposit below 4 figures, and no future. What you need to do now is to study hard. Even if you have a high diploma, how to apply theory to practice still needs a long training process. Society is always the most extensive university, and it makes you learn much more important than what you learned in school, so the same, Don't worry too much about your low education. Few people buy cars and houses by themselves before the age of 30.
3. Learn to be considerate of parents
Don't blame them for their nagging. When you become a father, you will know that you are pitiful to all parents. In their eyes, you are still a child, but they are really old. Now you have to coax them to be happy. Maybe just a phone call and a little gift from you can make them feel at ease and easy to do.
4. Make good friends
Friends have a great impact on your life. Don't make too many flesh-and-butter friends. At least have a friend who can help you at a critical moment. If you meet such a person, take good care of it. It will be useful in the future, no matter whether he is rich or poor.
5. Don't trust love too much
There should be love in the heart, but please don't say or believe those vows of love in Aunt Qiongyao's novels. There is no eternity in the world, and the important thing is responsibility. But women's heart has changed, and everything is in vain. What you have to do is to let go when it is time to do it, and don't hesitate when it is time to let go. Love before the age of 30 is not fake, but most people do not have the ability to really grasp it, so they learn to act according to their abilities.
6. Don't worry. I still keep my first kiss
Love is not much but essence. Don't think that you have never met a girl in your twenties and are afraid that you will never find a wife. You will have many opportunities to meet girls in the future. You should know that although there are more men than women in this society, the reality is that women are actually more worried about this problem than men. When men are 30 years old, you are appreciating rather than devaluing. Mature love is often more beautiful and longer, so don't try to catch up with girls like mad dogs, Learn to taste loneliness.
7. Don't indulge in anything
The so-called "play with things and lose heart". Online games are played before you leave school. You have no extra time and energy to spend on them now, otherwise you will have to pay back everything you overdraw. One should have interests and hobbies, but please distinguish the priority.
8. Young people do not fail
Don't lose heart when encountering setbacks. Young people should always maintain a positive attitude. If they fail, they will start over again; If you lose it, try for something else. If you miss it, analyze it. Next time, grasp it; Naive, next time, mature. It doesn't matter. It will be fine. Don't give up even if you reach the extreme point. I believe you can survive. Don't be negative, it will be fine. Once wrong, the past, can not aftertaste in the past. Now, very good, tired, very comfortable. Don't hurt, there will always be someone to support you.
9. Don't easily worship or despise a person
Everyone has idols, but please have your own personality. Don't deliberately imitate a person, because you are the only, unique, and confident. Don't completely deny a person. Everyone is valuable. If you can't understand him, please learn to accept.
10. Be responsible
No matter what you used to be, please be an honest person from now on. Men should have a sense of responsibility. A responsible person can make others feel safe and trustworthy. We should not be cowardly, but please do not hurt the people who love you and the people you love, especially the kind girl, because there are not many kind girls in the world, even if you don't want to have, But please let her keep her beautiful heart.
11. Men's appearance is not important
Don't worry too much about your appearance and height. A man with good heart and integrity is much more handsome than those who have handsome appearance, tall figure but dirty heart. If someone judges a person by his appearance, please don't care too much, because you don't have to feel sad for a person with low taste.
12. Learn to protect your body
Don't think it's okay to smoke and drink now and stay up all night. That's because your body is in the prime time of your life. After the age of 30, you can understand the meaning of the word "powerless". Body is the capital of revolution. Nothing can be done without a good body, so try to let yourself live a regular and healthy life.
13. Don't feel that you can accomplish nothing
You are not qualified to talk about success now, except if you have tens of millions of assets. A career that is too fixed at the beginning is not necessarily a good thing. Perhaps you will learn more knowledge in the process of continuous career change, and you can tap your potential and find the most suitable job for you.
14. Please work hard
Even if your current job is boring and low, please take it seriously. You should know that any successful person starts from the smallest thing. Maybe you can't learn much great knowledge now, but at least you should learn good working attitude and working methods, which is very important for the future.
15. Please take feelings seriously
Don't envy those playboys who change women like shoes. The love on the spot just makes you waste time and energy. The most painful thing for a person is not that he can't find a lover, but that he has no love in his heart. When you turn the three words "I love you" into the most easy sentence for you to say, then you can hardly find true happiness in the world of love. Love is not fair. There is always one person who pays more than the other person. Even if there is no result, don't feel worthless, because your pay is not only for her, but also for your own love. It is very valuable to pay for love. Praise yourself.
16. Please leave a little childlike innocence
In the heart, even in a small corner, please keep a childlike innocence, not childish, but sometimes a little simple will make you happy. So don't worry too much about gain and loss, life is not perfect.