What kind of wife a man chooses is equal to what kind of life he chooses. As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Therefore, when a man falls in love and marries a wife, he should pay special attention to the personality of a woman and the details of her overall image. The following nine kinds of excellent wives, men must regret having married.
1. The best wife with only material enjoyment in her eyes
Girls generally say that they like to dress up and eat well and use well. It is natural that men are stingy and unwilling to spend money on themselves, so they hate women who value material things.
In fact, it's not that men can't bear the fact that women spend money, but that girls don't put their minds on them. If a woman and a man are together and always think of the man's money, will the man feel disgusted?
Men will feel that their girlfriend has been kidnapped by material, but they have been kidnapped by their girlfriend. As a result, the two have not developed feelings, but have developed debts. Instead of feeling the beauty of spiritual harmony, they feel the material pressure day and night.
It is true that material is the basis of love, but too much attention to material will lead to the opposite, which will make men feel disgusted. It is best to change their thinking appropriately.
2. The best wife who often goes to nightclubs
What I want to state is that the concept of going to the nightclub and being indecent are two concepts. I didn't say that the women who go to the nightclub are not serious. So please don't be hysterical. There is nothing wrong with going to nightclubs, although I never love to go there. Some women I know are very fond of going to nightclubs. If they don't go there for a week, they will feel like they are taking drugs.
In fact, nightclub life is at most a relaxing dream, a gorgeous but unreal vanity dream. If you go occasionally, you can relax your mood properly. If you often go to nightclubs, you will give men a sense of insecurity. This kind of women love themselves and self-deceiving dreams, and do not love them.
It is OK to relax properly. Those girls who want good men don't dress up foolishly like anything and go to the nightclub, where love can't be found. You can read books when you are free. With a beautiful appearance and a rich heart, such a woman is a sugar-coated bullet that every man can't resist. Once you are addicted to it, you will live a lifetime.
3. A very fat wife
Just imagine if a man saw a woman piled up with meat at the first sight, would he immediately like her? Many girls gave me a lot of examples, saying that a fat woman is liked by a handsome man. Of course, I do not deny that a girl's good character will win the favor of men, but in this face - looking society, in the fashion trend of taking thin as beauty, slim body will give women more choices. This is not in the Tang Dynasty, so wake up, ladies!
Your boyfriend said you don't lose weight, and your husband said you love meat, but when they meet a slim, long-legged beauty in the street, their eyes will betray his lies, so it is still necessary to lose weight. Don't wait until you are cut and dumped to remember the importance of losing weight.
4. The best wife who likes to lie
Lying should be an annoying trait for both men and women. Especially in such a relationship that requires a sense of trust, it is often a trivial lie that can destroy the trust of two people.
So it's better not to let a man think that you are playing tricks on him.
5. An excellent wife who doesn't pay attention to details
Many women think that a man who loves a woman pays the most attention to the soul of the woman, and the appearance details are not so important. This is a fatal point of view. According to the survey, 90% of men observed every detail from head to foot when they first met a woman. For example, gray nails, single eyelids, body odor, straight legs and other details. We can't rigidly say that women have to cut their eyelids and have plastic surgery in order to cater to men's preferences, which is a sign of loss of self. But women can certainly do better at the points that can add points to their image. Of course, they can do better like a queen.
6. An excellent wife who doesn't know filial piety
I think filial piety is very important. If I want to marry a wife, I hope she can be filial to my parents.
Some women have no concept of filial piety and are selfish. I can't expect such women to love me much. I am very self-centered and don't think about others. I just want to live a comfortable and comfortable life, and even treat the men around me very selfishly.
If even the parents' upbringing can be treated so lightly, then I think this woman is very heartless, and there is nothing to talk about with her.
7. The best wife who doesn't know how to maintain
It is well known that women age faster than men. Men have 41 flowers, while women have 40 are called "bean curd dregs". There is a joke that men like women in their twenties regardless of their age. That's why they like young women with smooth skin. After all, no one wants to have a face with acne. Some sisters said that my pregnancy marks were also caused for him to have a baby. That's right. In his heart, you are still meritorious, but there are two concepts: meritorious and like or not like. So it's better for a woman to straighten herself when she has time.
8. An excellent wife who often smokes and drinks
Nowadays, many women smoke and drink, which is nothing great. However, I must say to you sincerely that men really hate women who often smoke and drink, and their impression of such women is very poor, which is extremely poor.
Most normal men still want women around them to look like women, beautiful, elegant and pure, which is a matter of feeling. If a woman often smokes and drinks, it will make people feel very complicated and depraved, and it will make men stay away.
9. The best wife who doesn't give men face
We must admit that men really love face, so don't challenge men's dignity. A man loves face so much that if you don't give him face and you deny him, he simply denies your existence.
Men hate the self-righteous women who think they are smart and can do anything. They speak as if the people around them are fools. They can't move to hurt the men around them. Well, even if what you lose is true and there is no mistake, so what? If you choose me and say I'm an asshole in front of others, what is it that you choose this asshole!
In the final analysis, this is not entirely a matter of face-loving, but a matter of "feeling betrayed". Men trust the women around them and show themselves naked in front of them. As a result, they don't support themselves in front of others. It's enough to say two good words for a man, but also to kick a man in front of others. This is not betrayal!
What do we need to live our whole life? What is really needed is a good attitude and a relaxed mood. Only people with a harmonious family and a healthy mentality can have the conditions for leisure. For example, marrying a good woman can give a man a relaxed mood. On the contrary, if you marry the above nine kinds of best wives, men will regret it!