Some women always say that it's cute and most charming for a man to focus on his own appearance. It's just that women don't like men wasting their attention elsewhere than themselves. Therefore, when a man is focused on doing something, she always tries to disrupt it to distract him and bring his attention back to him.
Men also like to be quietly watched by their beloved women, but most of the time, men focus on their careers and their ideals. Therefore, it is required that women's attention never intrude into a man's private space. Some privacy is not shared by their wives.
1. Career planning doesn't want to be known by your wife. Women rarely understand the world of men, and many of their ideals are illusory goals that they cannot understand. Especially before their ideals are realized, the vast majority of them will be regarded by their wives as ambitious, childish, and unrealistic. If their husbands explain to them, they will be mistaken for bragging and taught to be down-to-earth and do some practical work to support their families. Therefore, men will keep this kind of privacy deep in their hearts and will not take the initiative to share it with their wives, in order to avoid being ridiculed by their wives.
2. I don't want to be shared by my wife. The bottom of an adult man's heart is also to maintain his innocence. For example, when his husband comes home lazily, he likes to watch children's cartoon TV, watch children's comics, and play with children's toys. At this time, his wife must not joke that he is a young man, and men also need to release pressure; For example, when your husband acts coquettishly in front of you, you should be grateful that he treats you as his most trustworthy person. After all, men need to disguise themselves outside, and only when facing the most trustworthy person can they reveal their truest side.
3. I don't want to be discovered by my wife. Men are always unforgettable or bitter about their first love, especially those unsuccessful first loves, which are the purest memories in a boy's inner world. Occasionally, they will remember some beautiful moments and silly smiles. Even if your wife is gnashing his teeth in jealousy, you still have to smile and wait for his innocence. After all, everyone has the experience that a man is not able to afford it, but he is missing the good things he once had. Remember, since he finally chooses you, it means he still loves you in the end.
4. The virtual world doesn't want to be disturbed by your wife. The younger generation of boys almost all like to play video games, which belongs to the accessories of youth that boys cannot part with. Moreover, the vast majority of boys will forget everything around them as soon as they sit in front of the computer, and they do not want to be disturbed by others, even their wives. Because men like the heroic role they play in the virtual world, which can be either the king who dominates the world, the amorous and romantic prodigal son, or the prince in distress. The combination of heroism and idealism can satisfy the pleasure that men cannot obtain in real society.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)