Post Date December, 03 2023
I have something to do today. I can't take you home. Barbie looked at the message from her boyfriend, and her disappointment filled her heart. The relationship had only lasted for one month, and their love period seemed to be only a little longer than the life of fireflies.
In fact, there must be a reason for everything, so does the change of love; If you let Barbie take the time machine back, I believe she will not jump the needle like a rapper when she is dating.
Just like on the first date, the man with a happy smile asked Barbara whether she would like to eat spaghetti or teppanyaki. Barbie answered casually. The man thought that this might be a common problem of women, so he didn't pay special attention to it and asked no more questions. He took Barbie directly to a steak shop.
Unexpectedly, after eating the meal, Barbie, like eating ten thousand years of durian by mistake, cried bitterly: I knew I had eaten teppanyaki. The man was dumbfounded and said that because she said it was all right, so she brought her to the steakhouse. Barbie replied: Although I said it was all right, you didn't continue to ask people.
Later, the man explained again that because Barbie didn't specify, he made the decision; But Barbie also insisted that the man did not continue to ask, so the topic only lasted for ten minutes.
Even once, after the two people watched the movie, Barbie asked whether the man would go straight into the thief's cave to save his wife like the hero; After the man thought for a minute, he rationally analyzed the advantages and disadvantages of rescue and not rescue. Barbie immediately rolled her eyes, and the iron mouth was broken because the man didn't love her so much, so he wouldn't go to save her directly.
Despite the man's innocent expression like a cat in the ear, Barbie was asked if he would save her directly. It was not about love or not. Barbie still insisted on whether she would love her as much as the hero, so she went to rescue at all costs.
The dispute lasted an hour longer than the steak incident; Worse, the connected journey was saved, and they went home with anger. And from this incident, men's attitude began to change from hot to cold.
In love, the thinking mode of most women is like that of Beiyi Road, which turns nine corners and eighteen turns. In addition, because they care about each other, they like to make men suspicious, so they are easy to use ghosts to beat the wall in dating; But in fact, this will not make men feel that you want to get closer to each other, but will make men feel that it is a burden to go out with you.
Usually, when the situation of talking with the devil and hitting the wall is repeated more than three times, even if the original man dates you on the premise of dating, he will also be frightened into a mysterious teenager, because this kind of relationship mode is really too tiring, and the purpose of dating you is to love you, not to abuse yourself.
What's more, dating is actually time-consuming for most men.
Because when he and you eat popcorn and watch movies, he can negotiate a business with customers; When a man takes your hand and walks slowly along the old street, his brothers are fighting heartily on the basketball court; Men are willing to give up for you about the time of fighting for career and playing interest, but the dating mode he doesn't want to exchange is to make him play your mind reading as an audience and interpret the profound meaning of the words of "beating the wall with ghosts".
Over time, men's patience has been worn away, and the truth is like a deflated ball, without motivation and flexibility.
But dear, in fact, you don't have to torture your heart and delay men's true intentions. Rather than expect men to be worms, you should express your needs directly like a queen; For example, when you want to see the night view, don't say that I can go home later today, and then wait for the man to open the sky eye, and plan the night view journey immediately after reading the heart successfully.
Don't forget, man has no special function, he needs clear instructions, so you can say: listen to my friend say that the night scene of Jiufen is beautiful. Shall we go to see it together in the evening? Even more frankly, I want to see the night scene with you.
In this way, the two can not only save the meaningless conversation, but also make the man more prepared for the direction, and can also be more determined from dating. Such a rational and emotional person is suitable for you to join hands with him in the future; And smart you, as long as you are responsible for enjoying the sweet time.
Spread out the map of the next date. If you take the route of "beating the wall with ghosts", you will enter the hell of quarrels; Take a clear line of expression, and you will move towards a happy paradise. It depends on your choice where love should go.
