Post Date April, 15 2023
Recently, I read a report about a man concealing his wife and borrowing hundreds of thousands of yuan from the bank to start a factory for his brother. In the end, his brother lost all his money and couldn't even pay off the cost and interest. If it weren't for someone coming to their home to make trouble for their brother's debt, and the wife didn't know about it yet, when she learned about it, she immediately fainted... At this time, would a woman have an affair because of this? We believe that the following issues should be considered clearly.
First of all, why do men do this when they don't have money
There are only two reasons for this: one is that you really value your brother very closely, perhaps because you have such a philosophy of life: "Brothers are like brothers and sisters, and wives are like clothes." Therefore, if your brother has needs, he will not hesitate to find ways to create conditions without conditions. The second is: Perhaps my brother knows this brother very well, and after giving him a lot to make a fortune, he will repay him. Under the temptation, when his brother gets stuck, he will lend hundreds of thousands of yuan to his brother.
Secondly, why does a man lend money to his brother without telling his wife
First, men know that their wives will definitely disagree, so they make their own decisions and make their own decisions. Secondly, maybe men always have no money and are looked down upon by their wives. They believe that their brother has given them a way to make a fortune, and they can also share dividends in the future. Therefore, wait until they become rich. Third, the relationship between husband and wife living apart is not very good, and men trust their brother far more than their wives. Therefore, I feel that there is something I don't need to discuss with my wife.
Again, why do men borrow so much at once
First of all, there must be a strong trust in my brother's abilities. Secondly, it must be that men have soft ears and tend to be credulous. My brother has said a lot of things to him that have moved his heart. In fact, as common sense, we all know that doing business and running factories can lead to profits and losses. If we make a mistake, we will lose everything. A man suddenly lends such a large amount to his brother, indicating that he has no sense of risk at all. In the report, I saw that many people came to my brother to ask for money, indicating that the money borrowed by my brother was not even for him alone.
Finally, does a woman have an affair because of this
The question a woman needs to consider is, does her husband respect her? Men have not discussed such a big matter with themselves. Are they husband and wife? What's the point of having an affair at this time? What do you want to prove? Or do you want to earn back the hundreds of thousands of loans a man lent to his brother through an affair? The current situation you face is either to endure a painful divorce with a man or to think about how to pay off this debt. Or whether we can find a man's brother and see how much we can compensate for our losses. Or see if there is any evidence of borrowing, and whether you can safeguard your rights and interests through legal means. And external encounters are by no means the best way to solve your problems.
