Many men are labeled "unproductive" by others because they are afraid of their wives. Why are men afraid of their wives? On the one hand, men are not afraid of their wives, but rather respect their wives, so they always unconsciously give in to their wives in life. On the other hand, according to relevant research, men who are afraid of wives are psychologically healthier and live longer. Why is this?
What do you think of a henpecked man? Long ago, a man who was afraid of his wife might have been labeled "unproductive", but today, a man who is afraid of his wife is an outstanding representative who knows how to respect women. They are both gentle and delicate in character, and are good at perceiving the human heart. "Wife phobia" is also equivalent to listening to your wife and becoming more regular in eating, working, and resting. And psychologically healthier.
The deputy director of the psychological consultation department, a psychologist, said that men who are afraid of wives are relatively gentle and delicate, able to respect women, and good at understanding the human heart. And men who are afraid of wives are healthier in terms of psychology, diet, work and rest, and exercise. Fear of wife can also lead to fear of health.
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Eat more regularly
"Dear husband, come back from work for dinner," married men should often hear such words. Wife afraid men are generally afraid to say they have social engagements outside under the sweet "lewd influence" of their wives, but rather go home and eat the meals cooked by "Wife Adults.". The food at home is cleaner, less oil, and less salt than the food at restaurants outside.
In addition, a man who is afraid of his wife is also afraid to criticize and criticize the meals carefully cooked by his lovely wife. "Eat some fruit and eat more vegetables." Wife afraid men are more willing to accept their wives' suggestions for healthy eating. As a result, men are forced to accept a balanced diet, ensuring a healthy diet. In addition, for smoking, drinking and other repeatedly prohibited bad eating habits. Men who are afraid of their wives are more likely to quit under the supervision of their wives' sweet words.
In addition, men who are afraid of their wives have no opportunity or dare not come home too late or stay up late at night. They always come home early after work. In this way, henpecked men unintentionally establish a healthy schedule of going to bed and getting up early. It avoids going out all day to socialize, socialize, and stay up late for a long time. Therefore, it also avoids problems that may cause the body, such as endocrine disorders, neurasthenia, headaches, and gastrointestinal problems.
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Men exercise more
Exercise is an important factor in maintaining vitality and physical health. Maintaining moderate exercise every day can increase heart and lung function, improve the heart and blood circulation system, consume calories, and accelerate metabolism. However, in modern society, under the fast paced and intense work pressure, not everyone can spare a few hours a day to activate their muscles and bones and do sports.
"Husband, accompany me to go shopping", "Husband, go wash a bowl". The wife coquettishly "enslaves" her husband. Some men feel that accompanying their wives to go shopping and helping with household chores is something that undermines their masculinity. However, out of respect and love for their wives, men who are afraid of wives will accept their wives' requests to go shopping and share household chores. This actually captures the opportunity to communicate emotions and exercise. In addition, Wang Yanling believes that doing housework for men is also a way to relieve and relax psychological pressure.
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Men are psychologically healthier
Some men feel that they need to bear all the burdens of their family to be called men. But in fact, men should not always bear pressure silently. Wife phobic men communicate with their wives in everything, compromise and avoid conflicts, often creating a good family atmosphere.
Wang Yanling believes that in today's society, men still assume more socialized roles. During the economic crisis, many people are overwhelmed and escape by suicide. When the family as a whole is facing a crisis, men know that they are not fighting alone, and psychological pressure can be greatly reduced.
Some men worry that if they concede in the family, it will be a sign of weakness. Worried that his wife would become more and more superior to him. In response, Wang Yanling smiled and said, "Based on my decades of clinical experience, the efforts and rewards of both men and women in marriage are two-way and mutual. In the family, sometimes the husband comes forward, sometimes the wife comes forward, which is also conducive to maintaining a good family relationship and further maintaining male health."
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)