For each of us, our understanding of love is different, and of course, our psychological state is also different. Research has found that love can repair the psychological scars of childhood. In love, lovers play the role of parents to a certain extent, and people will take care of their lovers like children, selflessly giving everything like loving children.
When a lover experiences a crisis, women tend to protect them like mothers protect their children, ignoring the harm to their physical and mental well-being. They feel that doing so is natural and appropriate.
The sperm count of men in love is very large and can be produced at any time, while women usually ovulate once a month, which gives men an innate advantage in reproducing offspring. Survival and reproduction are the most basic needs and instincts of humans, and humans will make every effort to maintain fertility and reproduction. Due to the limited number of female eggs, in order to protect their own offspring and the right to reproduce, they must be braver and more dedicated than men. Women must have a dedicated love life and a fixed partner in order to better reproduce. Perhaps people may not realize this, but they are controlled by subconscious and instinct, and they all do so.
There are certain differences in the way men and women think. Men use rational thinking to judge things, while women tend to use emotions and intuition to judge and handle things. People's efforts and struggles in defending love and maintaining family stability are not necessarily rational. On the contrary, sometimes people will give everything in order to maintain the stability of love, and even harm their own body and mind, which is actually an irrational behavior.
Men's rationality makes them always weigh the pros and cons before making decisions, considering whether the effort is truly worth it and whether they can obtain the maximum benefit. The process of considering will inevitably take some time, and the result of considering usually takes into account other factors rather than risking everything to defend love, which makes men appear less brave and determined; When women make decisions, they are more dominated by emotions, and they prioritize their emotional life and the interests of their loved ones and families, even considering these as the full value of life and their own survival. As long as their loved ones are not harmed, they dare to do anything, which makes women in love appear braver.
Research has found that love can repair the psychological scars of childhood. In love, lovers play the role of parents to a certain extent, and people tend to take care of their lovers like children, selflessly giving everything like loving children. Women in love actually have a motherly love for their lovers. When a lover experiences a crisis, women tend to protect them like mothers protect their children, ignoring the harm to their physical and mental well-being. They feel that doing so is natural and appropriate.