Post Date December, 03 2023
The appearance of a third party in a family is not caused by the nature of the husband's playboy, but by the conflicts in most marriages.
If the invasion of a third party, most of the responsibility lies with the man, but in the end it is the dissatisfaction of marriage that can make the man have an affair.
So, what factors are prone to third parties?
1. The marriage of strong women
The marriage of strong women is derailed. Most of them do not have lovers, but strong women do have responsibilities. It is their "strength" that kills the self-esteem and vanity of their husband as a man.
In many cases, their cheating is to find a woman who is comparable to themselves to talk to. As long as the other party gives them more comfort and encouragement, it is easy to "fall in love".
2. Marriage of full-time wife
In real life, there are always some wives who think that they will have a dependency after marriage, give up their previous work and study, and settle down to become "full-time wives" at home, resulting in dependency psychology. This also caused the wife to stay at the foot of the mountain when the husband climbed to a certain height.
At this time, there must be other women around her husband, and the relationship will grow over time.
3. Childless marriage
Children are the biggest "finished product" of marriage and the "link" to maintain the relationship between husband and wife. If both husband and wife just don't want to have children at the moment of interest, it's easy to do so, but if one of them, especially the woman, is not fertile, the husband is also very easy to cheat.
4. A marriage with no family
Generally, when choosing a spouse, people will talk to each other, but now many people, especially the post-80s and post-90s young people, advocate the principle of "love first". Even if there is a big difference between the other party and themselves, they will break through the secular and various obstacles to come together.
But when their minds are really hot, they will find many problems, such as lack of common language, unsatisfied life of husband and wife, etc. Once they can't find a solution to the problem, one of them will be ready to give up the idea of "staying together for a lifetime" slowly. As long as they need to be "at the same level", they will go through the motions of cheating.
5. A patriarchal marriage
Unlike the childless marriage above, this kind of marriage is more related to regions and families. Most of this phenomenon of marriage derailment is due to the pressure of the husband's family or the serious thought of "male chauvinism" and "son preference".
It is usually these men who cheat and have illegitimate children before being discovered by their wives, or take the initiative to persuade their wives to divorce or even accept the facts.
