1、 Marriage has never been taken for granted, but it is more about loving each other and understanding gratitude!
If you think you've got a wedding letter,
I think my husband should unconditionally love you and love you for a lifetime,
Then you are very wrong.
Whether a man is willing to hurt, protect, and love you depends, to a large extent, on whether or not you are worth the way he treats you in his heart!
2、 Find a balance in matters like housework!
When it comes to the housework after marriage, there will always be endless disputes. After all, we are not growing up doing housework. Even if we have a concept of marriage, we still rely on imagination.
3、 In marriage, men also need guidance, encouragement, and praise
Men, no matter how old they are, always have a child in their heart. When they show you their childish innocence, it is actually a manifestation of trust and intimacy, because only in front of you can they show their true inner self.
Many married women feel that their husbands are not caring enough and are unwilling to participate in many things! In fact, men and women have different interests. Women love beautiful clothes and dresses just like men love cars and beautiful women. They are all natural!
4、 For father-in-law and mother-in-law, if they cannot "love the house and the crow", they can at least "stay away from it."
Many people will say that no one is willing to target elderly people for no reason, and often they go too far. I believe that there are indeed some unreasonable mothers-in-law. If you do not have a high emotional intelligence and harmonious coexistence with mothers-in-law, hiding far away is undoubtedly a good choice.
Don't tell me, you need the help of an elderly person, and there's no way to separate. I just have to hehe. Everything comes at a cost, and you can't take advantage of everything, can't you?
5、 Learn to accept an imperfect husband
The imperfection behind beauty is generally not seen by people who are not close relatives, and no one is perfect. Since we form a family, we must learn to accept and tolerate each other's good and bad in a timely manner!
6、 Find the "love words" that each other likes
People are different, and men and women have different ways of thinking and preferences. If you truly love each other, you need to understand what they really like? Of course, on the other hand, it's also important to let the other party know what kind of way to feel his love!
7、 Develop the habit of recording the details of a good life and collecting memories unique to each other!
When two people get along together, the accumulation of emotions is more based on the dots of daily life. If we can find the seeds of happiness in ordinary days, let it take root, sprout, and grow,
I believe this relationship can withstand the test of time, because beautiful memories are enough to make your life full of sunshine. When you have small happiness at your fingertips, will you still be afraid of not being protected by love and family affection in marriage?