The case of Xiao San becoming a regular employee must have been heard of by everyone, and even if you haven't seen it firsthand, you should know some from the headlines of major entertainment media. Cases like this are common in our lives, with some seemingly incompatible couples still loving each other after many years of marriage; Some couples, on the other hand, go their separate ways because men cheat and women lose their "ground". What affects all of this is the marital competitiveness of the "main family". As the saying goes, whether a man can be hooked or not is the charm of a mistress, and whether a man can be kept or not is the ability of the "main family".
We already know the importance of marital competitiveness, so how to improve competitiveness is a topic of concern for all "legitimate families". Only by improving one's competitiveness can one hold onto one's marriage and strictly guard against the involvement of mistresses. You may want to learn three great strategies to improve competitiveness and create a perfect marriage that belongs to you.
Harmony generates wealth and does not engage in internal conflicts within the family
The more natural disasters and internal strife a country has, the poorer its people will become, and so will its families. If a couple gets into a feud all day, either because of defending their own interests or because of each other's infidelity, they become angry and have a fight every now and then, which will only slowly deplete your competitiveness. The dependence of men on their families is definitely due to the fact that they cannot feel anything outside. A family is harmonious and prosperous, and the female protagonist is reasonable. Men must be reluctant to leave this family. On the contrary, the husband and wife argue and make noise all day long, and the house is in a mess. This kind of family man doesn't want to stay for a moment, so he naturally runs straight to the mistress who has been tempting him for a long time.
Regularly undergo family "annual checkups"
The "annual check-up" referred to here means that as a hostess, you should learn to keep your heart to your husband and have a face-to-face conversation with him to see if he has any worries in the recent period, and firmly grasp his psychology. Only a man who constantly understands himself can know what he wants, know oneself and the enemy, and win all battles, otherwise it will only allow the third party to take advantage. Only through the annual family check can the main family continuously adjust their strengths and weaknesses, constantly grasp their husband's mentality, and enable him to understand his wife's understanding. Only then can marriage go further and further.
Having many common friends
You should know the truth of relying on friends outside, social connections are actually wealth. Only by having many common friends can we have more opportunities to defeat the third party. No matter where he goes, he will have your "eyeliner", so that your man will always remind himself not to mess around. Of course, your friends can never be messengers who stir up discord, but building a network can provide you with a good social atmosphere. Compared to the submissive mistress, you are of course the queen in everyone's minds, and defeating the mistress is not negotiable.