Post Date December, 02 2023
When it comes to Chiang Kai shek, he will think of the First Lady Soong May-ling, but it is said that Chiang's favorite woman is Chen Jieru. Jiang was moved by her at first sight and pursued her crazily, ultimately winning the beauty's return.
Jiang and Song
Their marriage lasted for seven years. Jiang decided to marry Soong May-ling for his good fortune and let Jie Ru escape from a foreign country.
Jie Ru was naturally unwilling to do anything. Jiang swore that he and Song were just political marriages and would restore relations with Jie Ru five years later. Jie Ru had to obey. Unexpectedly, the political marriage between Jiang and Song was as stable as Mount Tai, and they stayed together until they were old.
When I was young, reading this story would make me think: even if Jiang and Song were together, they would definitely not be happy. Nowadays, it's not necessarily true. In fact, in terms of marriage, Jiang and Song are the best partners.
Jiang and Chen
In her autobiography, Chen Jieru stated that she did not expect Jiang to achieve great success, only wanted to live an ordinary life peacefully. From this idea, she knew that even without the appearance of Song, after the sweet period, the two of Jiang and Chen would inevitably face continuous disputes.
Jiang is so ambitious. What he needs is not an ordinary virtuous wife and mother, but a woman who can help him achieve success and fame. Song's family background, upbringing, and even appearance match his broad ambitions.
Marriage is like a play
A bright smile can lead to a touching love story, but marriage is real. The biggest difference between life and TV dramas is that the male and female protagonists in TV dramas have gone through countless hardships and finally got married. At this point, the drama has come to an end.
And in life, the male and female protagonists enter marriage. This scene has just begun, and in the long years to come, the end of the play will never be counted until the end of life.
Always wait for the most suitable person
The most reliable marriage relationship is not about palpitations or romantic events, but rather the matching of values and external conditions deep in the mind. Marriage should not seek the most desirable person, but the most suitable one.
But how could youth be so indifferent and transparent when they were young? Perhaps it is precisely because of such confusion and disregard for everything that youth has a unique flavor.
Jieru broke up with Jiang at the age of 22, feeling unhappy and never remarried. At the age of 65, she died alone in a foreign land. She spent 40 years regretting these 7 years.
Who was wrong
If she could forget it, if she could let it go, she would never end up lonely or desolate. However, she used a larger misconception to commemorate her past mistakes. Who in her grave had decided her fate?
The road is our own, if we go wrong, we will go wrong. If we turn around, why stop for anyone. The hardships given by others are nothing, the most terrifying thing is when the heart loses its direction.
Marriage requires choosing a partner with the same values, who can have a good conversation and help each other, respect and appreciate each other, and grow together.
The key is, have you found the direction for your growth?
Why is it disharmonious and why cannot it last?
Have you grown together?
The bond of marriage is not children, not money, but the mutual growth of spirit. In the most helpless and weak times, in the most depressed and down hearted times, there is someone who lifts your chin, straightens your spine, commands you to be strong, and accompanies you to endure fate together. At that time, the relationship between you not only had love, but also the mutual loyalty, unwavering understanding, and unforgettable kindness! Do you agree?
