Post Date December, 03 2023
What kind of life and psychological journey do transgender people, as a special group, have? The reporter interviewed a transgender person and walked into their unknown inner world.
Wearing a girl's uniform when she was young, she made her family laugh
I met Ye for the first time and made an appointment with a Western restaurant with soothing music. The bun pulled up high, dressed in a green dress, and painted fingers, without prior knowledge, it is impossible to associate the woman in front of her with the three words "transgender". Ye said that she did not feel the difference between "she" and "he" since childhood. When I was young, I loved to wear girls' clothes. When there was no one at home, I put on adult high heels and even if I sprained my foot, it felt beautiful. "The adults in the family only thought that the child was playful and didn't stop him, often laughing and passing away.
However, the age without gender passed quickly. One day at the age of 8, Ye and her cousin went to the women's restroom. After learning about this, the teacher fiercely criticized Ye. Afterwards, Ye, who was walking on campus, often felt the mocking gaze of others. As a result, Ye, who was stubborn, took rat poison and ended up doing nothing because it was fake. But from then on, Ye's heart had already understood the difference between 'she' and 'he'.
Happy Valentine's Day, she got married beautifully
On this year's "520" - the Valentine's Day of this fashionable youth, 24 year old Ye will welcome her own happiness, and she will marry her boyfriend who has been in love for two years on this joyful day.
On the early morning of May 20th, accompanied by family and friends, she carefully smeared her shy cheeks in front of the mirror. Ye said that she loved to carefully depict the feeling of bending her eyebrows in front of the mirror. "My childhood dream was to be an exquisite woman," Ye said.
At a hotel in Xinlicheng, Changchun City, hundreds of relatives and friends witnessed the love between Ye and Huang Kunlun. The bride is quite beautiful, "the service staff at the wedding praised Ye. In fact, they didn't know that this delicate bride was a transgender.
That love experience made her happy and sweet
March 6, 2004. Ye, along with her friends Sasha and Xiuer, underwent surgery and became a true woman, making her the first transgender person in Jilin Province. That day, she was so excited that she kept crying. Subsequently, the gender on Ye's household registration book and ID card also changed from "male" to "female".
Not long after, Ye went to Beijing and met Huang Kunlun, a young man from Shandong, while working at a singing hall. We are all singers, living in a very complex circle. When we first met, we were always afraid of being hurt and often tried each other out, so our love started very slowly, but it was very steady, "said Ye. She and her husband had a special taste like milk and coffee when they were together. Friends often joke that they are inseparable for this. I feel like the happiest woman in the world now, really, "said Ye with a happy expression on her face.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
