After two people have been married for a long time, many couples will have a very "tired" feeling, which is actually lack of freshness. In marriage life, what factors affect the marriage shelf life?
Bring work home
Nowadays, men and women in many cities are under great pressure at work. For men, it is easy to bring things at work to home. Even when they go to bed at night, they will still think about work, and naturally have no interest in sex. The same is true for women. Many women, like men, work hard outside, under the pressure of work, and often vent their dissatisfaction to their husbands. In this way, it is easy for couples to have conflicts and affect their feelings.
No normal sexual life
There are many couples living separate lives. Men often go on business trips and go out for entertainment in order to earn money. At this time, women are easily suspicious of men and always worry that they are looking for money outside. Men work very hard, and women always torture, which makes men feel very upset, and the two people have no normal sex life, so the relationship between husband and wife is getting weaker and weaker.
Lack of understanding and care
Men and women have different psychology. They often bury their pain and pressure in their hearts, while women are busy with work, care for children, and do housework. It is easy to neglect their husband's inner feelings. There is a lack of communication and understanding between the two people. Gradually, the relationship between husband and wife will light up "red light".
The wife is too tough
With the progress of society, women are becoming more and more capable. They don't want to lose to men and become strong women. But sometimes men's ability is relatively inferior to their wives. They hope to be gentle with their wives and chat with them after work, but this has become their inner desire. Over time, the farther the men's heart and the wife's heart are separated, the worse their marriage life will be.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)