Post Date December, 03 2023
"Shopping maniacs" are a certain group in this society. They are active in the post-modern consumption era and become a special phenomenon. From the perspective of psychological experts, the mentality of "shopaholic" is both rational and often loses its control. The pain and happiness in this is not what you can feel when you are a lover. But when your wife, lover and girlfriend are a shopaholic, what attitude will you take? Full of boredom? Or willing to accompany?
JONNY Psychiatrist married for three years
My wife is an architectural designer and a workaholic+shopaholic. On weekends, if she is not working, she must be shopping. Whether it is the virtual business space on the Internet or the real business space in the city, she is addicted to the fun of shopping. Anyway, I love her shopping craziness more than workaholic. At least when she is shopping, I can feel that she is a woman obsessed with skirts and high heels. I have never regarded her shopping behavior as a psychopathic state. This is her only female side. Only then did all her "strength" disappear. She was the "shopping maniac" of the elite female in the city, and also a relatively rational shopping maniac. But she still spent a lot of income on shopping, facing the useless and useful things in her home. Facing her ever-expanding shopping desire, I occasionally fell into fear. Only when the credit card bill is sent to her can I hear her cry and make up her mind in pain, but the money is hers, and it has no great economic impact on the family. What else can I say?
psychoanalysis:
Although shopping has no economic pressure, it can't be used as an excuse for crazy shopping. If she satisfies herself too much from material aspects, she is "workaholic" and tries to make money, while she is "shopaholic" and uses consumption to satisfy herself, the content of life is actually very simple. Therefore, "shopaholics" often put pressure on people around them because they don't know how to satisfy them except for material things.
However, many men are also helping their wives become "shopaholics", such as Jonny. Only when shopping, can their wives be less powerful and show "the only female side". So, although you are worried verbally, you will want to see the feminine side of your wife consciously or unconsciously.
Who saves my love
ALEX network engineer married for six years
We are a small and healthy family. People say how happy I am. I have a beautiful wife with good taste and a lovely daughter. But when the bill arrives at the end of each month, I don't know where to complain about my pain. A woman is born with a love of beauty, but she can really swipe her card crazily for beauty. After that, she always swears that she won't buy any more. But once I entered the fashion shop, I forgot everything. Of course, she not only bought clothes for herself, but also helped me dress up with my daughter. So the clothes in our family are always bright and bright. Even the daughter likes her mother very much, just like me. But looking at the credit card that is always in full load, I feel worried. Who knows when money is suddenly needed? Can that pile of clothes help us? I have tried my best to save and save some money secretly in case of unexpected need, otherwise who knows what will happen tomorrow?
Psychoanalysis:
Dressing up your family is really a good reason to continue to be a "shopaholic": I'm not just for myself. However, helping your family buy things is not necessarily for your family. If the purpose of crazy shopping is to make "my" things look good, the family will have a hard time because they are not "whose" things and need a lot of interactive emotions. After dressing up your own things, no matter the family's bills, no matter what happens, even if the family looks beautiful, they are not happy. By the way, the simplest solution is not to open a credit card.
