Man: The woman behind her career

It is often said that the success or failure of a person's marriage determines the success or failure of their career. For a successful career manager, the support of his wife is extremely important. As the saying goes from ancient times, behind a successful man stands a great woman. This woman may be a wife or another woman, but she must be a good woman. Therefore, when choosing a wife and making friends, one must be cautious.

A good woman is the mast of a man's career!

My wife is such a person. I compared her to the mast of my career. Why? Quite simply, because a good man must find a mast to hang the sail in order to raise the sails of his career. Without a mast, where does the sail hang? How to sail without sails? A good woman as a wife plays many roles, but the most valuable role is to be the mast of your career. I'm sure everyone has an objective evaluation from their heart.

Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty ruled the world at its zenith. In addition to relying on a large number of advisers and generals under his command, he was also inseparable from the assistance of his virtuous and gentle wife, Empress Changsun. It can be said that Empress Changsun is the mast of the cause of Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty.

Empress Changsun is knowledgeable and courteous, virtuous and gentle, upright and kind. She is very respectful and meticulous in serving the elderly and idle Emperor Li Yuan. She goes to greet him every morning and evening, constantly reminding the maids next to the Emperor of how to regulate his daily life and perform filial piety like an ordinary daughter-in-law. Empress Changsun is also very tolerant and docile towards the concubines in the imperial palace. She is not intent on winning exclusive favor, but instead routinely advises Li Shimin to treat each concubine fairly. This is why there are few romantic encounters in the imperial palace of Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty, which are rare in previous dynasties.

Empress Changsun, with her dignified character, silently influenced and influenced the atmosphere of the entire harem, enabling Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty to be free from interference from the harem and concentrate on military and state affairs. No wonder Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty admired her very much! Although Queen Changsun was born into a noble family and was honored as Queen, she has always adhered to a frugal and simple lifestyle, with no emphasis on luxury and beauty in clothes and supplies, and no extravagance in food, banquet, and celebration. This has also led to the simple fashion in the harem, which just set an example for the implementation of the governance policy of Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty, which encourages excellence and governance.

Empress Changsun not only has a generous bearing, but also has an extraordinary wit. Once, Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty returned to the palace and saw Empress Changsun, who was still filled with righteous indignation and said, "You must kill the old stubborn Wei Zheng before you can vent my hatred!" Empress Changsun asked the reason in a soft voice, but said nothing. She quietly returned to the inner room and put on her gown, then came to Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty with a solemn face, kowtowed and bowed, saying, 'Congratulations, Your Majesty!' "

Her move left Emperor Taizong's head in a fog and he didn't know what medicine she was selling in her gourd, so he was surprised and asked, "Why is it so prudent?" Empress Changsun solemnly replied, "I have heard that only Ming lords can have straight ministers, and Wei Zheng is a typical straight minister. This shows that Your Majesty is a Ming Jun, so I want to come to congratulate Your Majesty." Upon hearing this, Emperor Taizong was stunned and felt that what the Queen said was very reasonable, As a result, the cloudy sky disappeared, and Wei Zheng was able to maintain his position and life.

I think the success or failure of a marriage determines the success or failure of a person's career. For a successful career manager, the support of his wife is extremely important. As the saying goes from ancient times, behind a successful man stands a great woman. This woman may be a wife or another woman, but she must be a good woman. Therefore, leaders must be cautious when choosing wives and making friends. Having a good wife and a good woman is better than all splendor and wealth. The wealth inside a wife is better than the wealth outside. The realm of a friend can help you set sail for your ideal. In a word, a good man must have a reliable good woman.

Of course, men all want to find a woman who can bring them good luck. Empress Changsun is not so easy to meet. Are there any other types of women?

This is not determined by a woman's appearance, but rather a manifestation of her comprehensive qualities. Generally, there are several types of women behind successful men:

The first type: especially broad-minded type. They believe that men are not "managed" but "released".

Ms. Zhang's husband is the director of a radio station in Guiyang. Because she has a broad heart and is not too restrictive on her husband, she has achieved her husband's career. When it comes to wives, Her husband said: "It's not easy to be the woman behind a successful man. For ordinary women, the most important thing is to maintain family stability. Few women can both develop a man's inner potential and stabilize the relationship between two people. After all these years of marriage, I have been active in my thoughts and free in my actions. Even if I stay outside without informing her in time, my home won't turn upside down. Madam's atmosphere is a very important prerequisite.".

A woman who is unknown and supportive behind a man needs talent and a naturally broad heart, which cannot be learned. There is also the need for two people to be lucky and willing to make sacrifices whenever they meet the right person, regardless of how pleasing they are. At first, I wasn't very interested in her type, either. She wasn't the kind of woman who danced and flirted with each other. Over time, I found this to be a great advantage. Once a sensitive and thoughtful woman enters life, it can be very annoying. Men are not out of control. If women coordinate well with men, their lives will be happier.

The second type: understanding type. This type of girl is more common in the south. "Especially Nanning".

Mr. Liu's wife is of this type. In his early years, when he started a business, his wife's understanding and support enabled him to achieve his current career. Now, he is the boss of a group company. In the eyes of this young businessman, the kindness and gentleness of women are the most important. "Such a woman can make men's lives very easy. The more mature and successful a man is, the more dependent and attached he is to such a woman in life.".

If a woman calls a man a mountain to rely on, then a man prefers a woman to be a quiet harbor where he can dock himself. Perhaps using such a clich é d language to describe the mood of successful men here seems a bit artificial, but this is the most authentic feeling I have seen from some successful men's families. I believe that many successful men think so, but each has its own way of presenting. Unfortunately, I haven't found such a type of woman yet.

The third type: dependent and concomitant type. This type of wife can communicate, not cause trouble, and always be a companion. It is a very moving type of wife.

Mr. Wang is a marketing expert. He said, "Before, I always focused on my senses and wanted to find a woman who was elegant and decent, who could get out of the hall and into the kitchen. Such women exist, but they don't necessarily let me encounter them. Now, I just want to find a woman who can sit down and chat with me, and work to relieve my stress."

Mr. Li is a DM magazine salesperson, and he said, "The women behind successful men not only support their husbands' careers, but also support the entire family. Most of these women are ordinary looking, do not have too much desire, and live a down-to-earth life. Her husband does not want to deal with all the personnel from her, but also have to have children, honor their parents, and stabilize the position behind the family. The women behind men are particularly good companions for the rest of their lives."

Type 4: Kind and lovely. This type of kindness, support and care, filial piety to parents.

Two years ago, a gentleman had been married, and people who met him did not believe that he was a married man because he was too young. But if I had met his wife, I would have noticed that she looked like a high school student, super cute. Talking about why he got married so early, he smiled and said, "I'm just trying to catch happiness and not let it go."

A gentleman changes because of his wife. In the past, he wore a long sleeved shirt tied in a belt and never wore jeans or a T-shirt. His serious face was often mistaken for his early 40s. Now, he is dressed casually and always has a happy smile on his face, because his wife always says he is cute and fully packaged from head to toe, making his husband have to change various cute expressions in front of him every day.

Because of the change in his life, his career has also stepped up step by step. He said that changes in his family had taught him to be independent from childhood. After the couple had their own nest, he picked up their mother from the countryside. As he had envisioned in advance, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were simply close. After three years of life, they had never had a red face. This harmony was the greatest protection for him.

In fact, there are many types of women behind men, but the above is just a few simple examples. The specific situation still needs us to feel and discover in life.