It has become a common phenomenon for middle-aged men to have no time to go home for dinner. However, it is eating into the physical and mental health of middle-aged men and even affecting the stability of their families.
I once saw a story like this: An American child once asked his father how many dollars he made in an hour, and his father told him it was 20 dollars. The child borrowed 10 dollars from his father, and gave his hard saved 10 dollars in pocket money to his father, "Dad, I have $20 now, can I buy you an hour of time? Please come home early tomorrow, I want to have dinner with you." The child needs not only a comfortable living environment, but also your company. Children in Taiwan have also used women's groups to make a call for "Dad to go home for dinner"! It seems that middle-aged men should indeed reduce unnecessary socializing, reduce the number of overtime, spend more time with their children and wives, and have dinner with their families in a relaxed and pleasant environment!
Many middle-aged men often need to discuss business with clients at the dinner table. This kind of dinner often faces great pressure, and even the delicacies in the mouth are dull and tasteless. Customers often come from all over the world, and the food naturally cannot take care of your own taste. Over time, it is naturally your stomach that suffers. Research has shown that a relaxed and pleasant dining environment is very important for physical health, but it is not for you at this time. Moreover, in this atmosphere, neither tobacco nor alcohol can be dispensed with, and the harm to health is naturally conceivable!
Many middle-aged people who are engaged in technical and scientific research work often eat fast food and boxed lunch in their units for reasons such as overtime, and then continue to work after "quick decisions" for more than ten minutes. However, have you ever thought that fast food often contains a lot of heavy seasonings, and nutritional matching is naturally beyond the question. Frequent consumption of this fast food can easily lead to symptoms such as sore throat, oral ulcers, toothache, constipation, and other "burning" symptoms. A "quick decision" dinner is very detrimental to digestion, and immediately after the meal, it is difficult to put into work, especially for the gastrointestinal tract.
Don't neglect the big baby with the little one
You are a good man and a stinky man. Now, on behalf of your wife, I seriously remind you not to neglect the big baby just because you have one. To achieve:
"After her marriage, Jiajia, a close friend, became well-off, and her unit's benefits were not good. She simply stopped working and stayed at home to raise children.". Anyway, my husband is a vice president and doesn't need money. Now that her baby daughter is eight months old, she is becoming more and more playful and lovable. But recently, Jiajia seems to be in a poor state, sometimes sitting alone in such a large room and getting confused.
"Why don't you go out for a walk?" I asked her.
"They don't want me anymore."
"Are you kidding? Who didn't know you married a good family man?"
"Oh, yeah, but why am I so bored sometimes?"
Later, I realized why Jia Jia was so bored. After the birth of her little daughter, her husband almost devoted his entire body and mind to the baby. After urinating for my little daughter at night, I still need to keep the light on and study for a while; When you go out to work, kiss your daughter; Whenever you have leisure in the office, don't forget to call and listen for babbling sounds; The first thing to do when you go home is to kiss and tease your daughter; The weather is fine, and I still carry my daughter to the park and run from house to house.
"I'm a big living person, and I've become a shadow. I'm not even close to me anymore." Jia Jia was a bit disappointed.
It's not that Jiajia doesn't love her little daughter, it's her heart and soul. But women are like this, full of vinegar and wandering around. Mother and daughter vie for favor, and the vinegar factor collides. "I asked Jia Jia to talk to her husband, but she said she couldn't open it. It's okay to listen, but if she couldn't listen, she thought it was nothing to do.".
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)