Post Date December, 03 2023
The arrival of adolescence marks the beginning of male development into adulthood, and the most significant change is the development of characteristics that are different from those of women. Moreover, men exhibit significant differences in personality, psychology, behavior, and behavior compared to women. The main characteristics of their sexual psychology are:
(1) Ways to pursue sexual knowledge
Due to the delayed sexual development of males compared to females of the same age, the generation of sexual awareness is also later than that of females. When first ejaculation and the appearance of sexual characteristics reflected in physical appearance, a series of complex and subtle psychological changes occur.
Generally speaking, they lack sufficient mental preparation for their own changes, making it difficult to adapt and often developing a feeling of panic and unease. During this period, they are very eager to learn about sexual knowledge, especially paying attention to the eyes of the opposite sex. Unlike women, they rarely obtain sexual knowledge from their parents or teachers, and mostly satisfy their needs for sexual knowledge from newspapers and medical books. This is related to the tendency of adolescent males to have a closed heart.
(2) The admiration for the opposite sex
At the beginning of adolescence, men's pursuit of the opposite sex is not very obvious, and they even dislike and distance themselves. They value the friendship of same-sex partners very much. After entering the opposite sex, there is an emotional need to approach the opposite sex. They are generally curious about women and hope to understand them, both physically and psychologically. I particularly like beautiful girls, and those with outstanding academic performance are also attractive. They need to showcase their talents in front of women to attract their attention. Especially in front of the women I like, I am particularly eager to do things. I hope to become a hero and an object of worship in the eyes of the opposite sex. Men's emotions in front of the opposite sex are exposed and enthusiastic. But sometimes there is high hope for one's own performance, insufficient self-confidence, and often psychological tension in front of the opposite sex. Some men may fall in love with a certain woman, but they dare not reveal it and fall in love.
(3) Sexual desire
Due to the development of male sexual consciousness being different from that of women, once they have the desire to approach the opposite sex and develop interest in specific goals and engage in certain interactions, sexual desire often arises. Therefore, men tend to be more proactive in their sexual relationships. Generally, from being close to each other to developing into love, it is first clearly expressed by men. The sexual maturity of men is later than that of women, but it develops more violently, and soon enters the period of hyperactivity of sexual desire, which is manifested by the generation of sexual excitement and the enhancement of sexual desire. As a teenager, whether one can overcome their sexual desires with reason is also a sign of their sexual maturity. The task for parents, schools, and society is to prepare their sanity just as their sexual instincts awaken.
