Chen Kaige himself has been ridiculed many times by various media, and he has laughed it off. But why is he so angry with Hugo? Because Hu Ge was not making fun of Chen Dao himself, but of Chen Dao's works.
For men, they can be criticized, but their own works are not necessarily. The works, with their painstaking efforts and attention, are like their own children, to be protected.
Make Home a Man's "Work"
Women are complaining that men's sense of responsibility for their families is declining, and they are complaining about the fragility of the current family. But women don't even think about it. Why is family dispensable for men? Why don't women make home a "work" of men?
Housekeeping is essentially the maintenance and construction of the home. If a man can instill every bit of effort into his family through trivial chores, then with the perfection and maturity of his family, his sense of achievement will grow day by day: the fence he erected, the lawn he mowed, the fish tank he decorated, and the furniture he paired with... When all these are his "works" and receive the praise of women, is it so easy for him to give up?
Women should learn to let men increase their attention and attachment to home during the housework.
Allowing men to do housework is to subtly integrate them into the atmosphere of home through their daily efforts, allowing them to recognize that home is my work and dedication.