Post Date December, 02 2023
A friend said to me, "You know, men even have to find a good home before they can leave with dignity. But girls are more casual and leave when they are not happy. What they say is to play for two months before looking for a job." He wanted to tell me that there is a lot of personnel unrest in the nearest company, and the result was directly associated with the level of male and female relations.
If a woman is dissatisfied with a man, she may just lift the table and leave. It doesn't matter if no new person appears. As for a man, if he is dissatisfied with a woman, he can still tolerate it until a new person appears and let him decide not to endure it. Look, how like changing jobs!
I often hear many stories of men cheating in my life, and I have changed from indignation or gloom to expressionless. Because these stories are really rich and colorful, some of them find new lovers to change their girlfriends and wives after cheating, and some of them live a happy life again after repairing the relationship several times; There are also those who are physically unfaithful but have a firm mind that the family must not fall, and even both men and women acquiesce that the other party can be unfaithful but still live as a husband and wife... Then I lose my judgment.
However, no matter how complex a problem is, it can be summarized and ended with simple actions. There are always experts who say that if a man cheats, you should not jump in a hurry. This is because there is a problem in the relationship between two people that leads to the appearance of a third person. I used to sneer at this kind of words, probably because I have seen too many men's animal side. But the fact is that men cheat just like they change jobs. Most men don't want to have too many positive conflicts in a relationship (even what you call "talk" is a serious confrontation for them). In the relationship between the two people, there is a muddle mentality. Even if there are many dissatisfaction with their partners, they usually make do with noise or endure. They are too lazy to think too much about such things. Therefore, the end of an old relationship often takes the form of derailment.
The new love is not really how to win the country or the real love is invincible. It is just a powerful push, which is the power to end an old relationship. It seems that the new company that changes jobs seems to be more reliable than the old company, but it may not be reliable. But without this springboard to go out, I'm afraid that other better opportunities in the future will be even less for me. There is a famous saying that although men sometimes don't know what they want, they are particularly clear about what they don't want. So in the affair, women don't have to worry about what is better than themselves. Instead, they need to think about the root cause of your relationship.
One of my girlfriends said, "Men can't control the following. There is no doubt about it." She thought that cheating is a manifestation of men's lack of willpower, and also a tool for them to express their dissatisfaction. So, it is interesting to resist the physical and psychological discomfort and explore what makes them dissatisfied or why they have the opportunity to lose willpower. This can also indirectly explain why the same is cheating. Some people can let bygones be bygones, and some people must make a clean break.
In real cases, we have seen many root causes: the degradation of conduct caused by making bad friends by mistake, the weariness of life like stagnant water day after day, the disdain of the aging face of the partner, the fear of the mid-life crisis, and the rational call to stop a relationship that is never hopeful
If you know the root cause of the end of a relationship, it is relatively easy to accept the reality that can be retrieved or irretrievable. This will not comfort you, but at least it will not make you cry "where is she better than me" or "the third child has to die".
