Sexual Health
Living apart from each other, I suspect that my husband has other women outside. Sure enough
My husband is old and inflexible. He can't go out to work and earn money. The burden of taking care of the whole family falls on him. In order to make more money, he went to work in first-tier cities and started business with friends. I don't know exactly what business it is. In a word, we gather less and leave more. He doesn't go home more than three times a year and stays at home for less than a month. We have become a remote couple, and I am a left-behind woman in the eyes of others.
When my husband is not around, I do everything by myself. Although he works hard outside, it is not easy for me to stay at home. After all, it is not easy to take care of the elderly and children. What's more sad is to bear the pain of loneliness at night. Sometimes I think about how my life is so hard. Fortunately, he won the morale and earned a lot of money by working hard outside. His husband said that he would start a business at home in the next two years and end his life running around outside. After hearing this, I felt hopeful, and my mood suddenly brightened a lot.
However, when the good day is coming, he makes people sad. He used to call every three or five times to ask about the situation at home. He rarely called home in the past year. He finally came back. He also invited some friends to play mahjong, sing and drink. He seemed to have lost his patience with me. When he went out of town, I always recognized his impatience when I called him. The woman's intuition told me that he had something to hide from me.
I handed the child to relatives and took my luggage to the place where my husband worked. I need to thoroughly investigate all my doubts, otherwise I will always feel uneasy and lose sleep at night. Sure enough, when I arrived at his place, I saw a woman going in and out of his room. I pointed at her and asked her husband what was going on. He stammered about his roommate's girlfriend and helped him wash clothes. I never heard that he had a roommate. I rushed into the place where he lived, rummaged and confirmed the fact that he lived with this woman.
He could not hide it and then called me all. He said that it was not easy for him to fight outside these years, and I could not accompany him. He could not bear loneliness and found a partner to live outside. I took a look at the woman. She was very honest, but when they stood together, I became more and more sick. The woman was very witty and left voluntarily. I went home in despair, and my husband apologized to me, but I couldn't accept it. I work hard for this family, but he is so gay outside. I can't accept it. I want to get divorced, but I can't bear to look at my baby so small and my mother-in-law like that. What can I do?