You can often see articles about what women want and what they want to hear. What about men? We rarely know what men want to hear from women.
Women often ask questions about men's emotional needs, and the characteristics that often make men worry are reduced. It can be said that they have always done so. Evolutionary psychology proves this in another way.
Men also have emotional needs, although not as many as women. Before considering what your man wants to hear from you, let's first consider what is the most important factor in proper communication and effective listening.
Although we are discussing what your man wants to hear from you, we also want to determine when he wants to communicate - even in rare circumstances - and whether you can detect what he wants to hear from you.
God has given us all two ears and one mouth, so we can hear twice as much as we say. Effective listening will make you familiar with some warning signals that tell you that his emotional needs are not met.
Women, you often ask your men to communicate more with their own feelings. Well, come on, here are what they want to hear from you.
1. "I will support any effort you make."
We have all heard the saying that there is always a greater woman behind every great man. We are not asking you to stay behind men, but there is a song that says, "The man who supports you", which is what we are asking for.
Support what we are going to achieve now. When our beloved woman accepts and encourages us in any way, you will feel incredible for what we have done. When we do the next thing, we hope that women can continue to do so.
2. "I accept you and everything you have!"
For most of us, the acceptance of a lover outside the immediate family is the essence of a romantic relationship. However, many interpersonal relationships have broken down for one reason, that is, because both parties do not accept each other's appearance or form.
Don't cry or change him. Accept him or find a more suitable person. Think of him as a "pet plan", in which you invest your enthusiasm to transform him, so that he can make progress, both in emotional and physical aspects (more likely the former).
3. "Baby, we are in a team!"
A romantic relationship similar to any other relationship should be based on communication, common tasks and views. It's a cruel world outside, and it looks more and more cruel.
Just because we are men doesn't mean that every pressure has to be borne by us, even if sometimes we insist on bearing this pressure. Sometimes we just want to hear you say something that can lead to a series of unpredictable things. If these things are properly developed, they will be unbreakable.
4. "You are hot (that's what I mean)!"
Let's face it together - everyone - men and women hope that they have passed the test, are being tested and told that not only you have passed the test, but also the bystanders recognize you and think you are very good.
In fact, this feeling is different from many other feelings, but the casual and natural words like "Baby, you are hot today" are much better than the ubiquitous "I love you" or the monotonous words that I hope you don't say "you look good".
5. "I love you anyway."
Listening to someone you love (especially someone) say "I love you" has become our expectation. This is very common. In a certain context, speaking too much will become a burden. Do all those who have said this know the implication?
In this sad era of globalization, is our standard of love decreasing? In many social projects, men must play and follow their own roles and tasks. We are forced to make great efforts and take great risks. We feel it necessary to do all these things, but behind our ideas there is the possibility of failure.
Most men believe that everyone wants to hear what their lover says and feel love in any situation, even if they suffer failure. This is the characteristic of unconditional love - the only true and demonstrable form of love.
From a woman's perspective on her existing interpersonal relationship, it is difficult to say most of these words sincerely. However, the idea of speaking them out may be able to test and determine whether your existing relationships are as you think.