Post Date December, 03 2023
Researchers have found that some men choose to quit when their girlfriend is depressed or suffering a major blow, and when a woman succeeds, they come back to share her excitement with joy. Don't think such a man is just snobbish, in fact, this approach will actually make women feel satisfied. Similarly, when a man is frustrated, women don't have to blindly help him heal the wound. It should be noted that doing so can sometimes hurt his self-esteem. Let's leave him some space and when he achieves results, run back to encourage him.
In most couples, the proportion of good news and bad news is at least 4:1. Psychologist Shari Cabo from the University of California believes that by amplifying the gifts of life, we will have more joy.
Of course, if he clearly expresses his need for your support when he is in trouble, then go and help him without hesitation. But it should be noted that what women need when complaining is not constructive opinions, but to listen attentively and feel their feelings, repeating words such as' so pitiful 'and' really miserable '.
At the same time, researchers also remind that when there is a conflict between couples, even if the argument is intense, do not use sarcastic language, otherwise your relationship will definitely become rigid in the future.
