Post Date December, 03 2023
Couples may consider cohabiting when they reach a certain level, but how do you know if you are suitable for living together? If any of the following situations occur, you may need to consider them carefully.
1. His departure is a relief to you
Perhaps spending a weekend together is a great enjoyment for you, but when the weekend ends and you leave, you don't feel reluctant to part, but feel relieved. You can't wait to remove your makeup, change into flannel pajamas, prepare some snacks and friends to make Congee on the phone, and then lie on the sofa to watch your favorite TV play. This indicates that you are not ready to sacrifice your free time and are not suitable for cohabitation with a partner.
2. You guys love to stick together too much
"You're like two pieces of chewing gum that stick together tightly. When attending parties, you're inseparable, and when playing games with friends, you can't even be in different teams.". "When you live together, this phenomenon becomes even more severe, with no private space for each other, and no hobbies or activities of your own.". This situation can cause serious problems, so it's best to live together after being independent of each other.
Living together to save money
There is no denying that living with a partner means having someone share the rent with you, help you clean the sewers, and help you buy groceries and shopping. But is cohabitation just about making life easier? Is it not attractive for you to wake up with the person you love around you? If so, then consider cohabitation when the relationship is further advanced.
4. You like to occupy the entire big bed
Although it's fun to sleep with him, when he leaves, you can stretch out and occupy the entire big bed. You can sleep more comfortably in his absence. Consider these issues. If you are not ready to share your room with him, it means that you are not suitable for cohabitation yet.
5. You can't accept him changing the room layout
"This potted flower should be placed behind the shelf!" "These books should be placed in this direction!" After cohabitation, your partner may nag about some of the room furnishings he doesn't like, and you may be very angry because this is your property, your apartment, and it is up to you to choose the furniture and decoration style. "If you choose to cohabit, it means that you have to make concessions, and he has the right to express his thoughts and refuse to place rose tiles in the bathroom.".
6. There are always differences on vacation
Recall that last year's trip to Italy was supposed to be romantic and beautiful in your imagination, but it was actually a nightmare. You dream of lying in a comfortable hotel, but he wants to camp in the wild; You like pizza but he insists on spaghetti; He wants to visit the Sistine Chapel, but you want to go shopping in Milan. This is just a vacation. Think about living with him. Your cohabitation cannot be peaceful.
7. No common topic
When you share a weekend or have dinner together, it's always difficult to talk together. "He doesn't like the topic you're talking about, and you're not interested in what he's saying, which can last for hours or even days.". In this case, choosing to cohabit is tantamount to strangling your love in the cradle.
8. Life after cohabitation scares you
You worry about getting tired of living together and not being able to continue doing what you enjoy. Living together with two people requires finding a balance. If you want to escape with these thoughts, it means that living together is not yet suitable.
9. Can't accept each other's friends
On the whole, you may think his friends are reasonable, but when they joke against your boyfriend or discuss topics such as football or Messi, you feel unbearable. To be honest, you think they are annoying, and you can't stand them sitting on your sofa drinking and playing games all day.
10. Your life rhythm is different
"You're used to going to bed early, but he watches TV dramas until 2am;"; You are already asleep, but he wants to be gentle with you; On weekends, you like to get up early to go shopping, but he has to sleep until noon. Different life rhythms can make your cohabitation life very painful. Therefore, it is advisable to adjust your life rhythm before cohabitation.
