When we usually walk on the street, we will pass by pairs of young couples. Sometimes we will be very envious, and more often we will be very extreme. Why can't I find a good girlfriend? In fact, psychologists point out that the reason why some single men cannot find a girlfriend is because they are the type of single man who is disliked by others.
1. A motherly single man
This kind of man is too clean in life, and he doesn't trust anything others do. He talks incessantly, from spending a lot of money on furniture to what to eat, he always needs to point out and care 100%. This kind of man is more verbose than meticulous, unable to give you some quiet space. You don't want to be quiet when you have him, and others seem to be redundant and annoying.
2. A stingy and shrewd single man
They announced in advance that the cost of this meal should not exceed how much. After inviting the woman to a meal, they requested her to return the invitation. Every time they invited the woman to a meal, they publicly announced how much the meal had cost. He was telling others that he had given a great favor. Women cannot get any light from them. Women take advantage of their good face and at least ensure that their interests are not violated. It is difficult for stingy men to do so, and women often despair after being invited twice. Trying to fall in love with them is just bullshit.
3. A melancholic single man
They take life too seriously, exacerbate problems, often ask what to do about it, and often say it's annoying. The air where they are is oppressive, and the dull atmosphere can easily infect others. They make people lose hope, but more importantly, they see the darkness and sadness of life. When you're with them, you need to guess what's bothering him and why he's not happy. Generally, this kind of man doesn't chase after girls, and no girls take the initiative to give them a hug. Having sex? That's even more of an extravagant hope.
4. A cold and selfish single man
This kind of man never thinks you are a woman and tries to tolerate you. In his eyes, women should take the initiative to give. In front of girls, he will be very cold and show you a face, demonstrating that you don't want him to actively pursue you, it's impossible. Shifting responsibility in times of trouble, pushing responsibility towards a woman, throwing off one's sleeves and leaving, also taking away one's own cuteness and opportunities, and taking away the woman's feelings and good impression of him. No woman would be interested in a man who has no sympathy for her. If you have sex with someone like this, they won't care about your feelings. Just feel good about yourself.
5. A single man with a muddled mind
The idea of 'planting flowers with a heart but not blooming, planting willows without a heart' should have been abandoned long ago. Everything is obtained through hard work, intelligence, and wisdom. If you don't want money or status, and money or status will run to your feet for you to pick up, then there won't be so much dissatisfaction in this world. Any man must set lofty goals in advance, and ambitious men will shine, strive for self-improvement, and have endless charm. A man has no thoughts, is confused, like a walking corpse, without vitality, without radiance.
Men always hope to find a girlfriend who can walk up and down the kitchen, but before setting such conditions, male friends must test themselves to see if they have such abilities and abilities. Especially for the above few single men, if you want to find a girlfriend, learn to change yourself first!