Post Date December, 02 2023
There seem to be many resolute and calm real men in the world, but when one of them becomes their lover or husband, the woman is surprised to find that he is actually a timid big boy. To love someone, one must allow them to easily remove their disguise and face their true selves without being ashamed. Let him understand that your love contains everything.
1. I don't need you
Mr. W has been a strong person all his life, and according to Mrs. W, he has even become a bit tough. Not even going to see a doctor with a wife; Going shopping together, he always walks alone in front; My wife has something to do when she goes out. Looking back at him, he always waves his hand and impatiently says, 'You go, you go. I'm fine alone.'. After Mrs. W passed away, Mr. W suddenly grew much older. Two months later, he committed suicide.
Interpretation:
People generally believe that women are more vulnerable and dependent, but a Japanese psychological research institution has confirmed that in Japan, suicidal men are 1% more likely to commit suicide than suicidal women. 32 times, and girls recover much faster than boys after falling out of love or losing a spouse.
The attitude of men towards their partners is often that I don't need you, and without you, I would have lived the same way. However, in fact, they are hiding their deep dependence on each other. I feel very sad without her, it's really embarrassing! "The man thought.
2. Let's be inseparable
Does he really love me, but it seems that every girlfriend he loves in this way? "Xiao Wu was confused recently when she accidentally learned that her boyfriend's past girlfriend also thought he was very sticky. My boyfriend always wants to be with her for anything, even if she works overtime on Sundays, he has to wait at the coffee shop downstairs at the company. At first, Xiao Wu felt sweet, but gradually he felt dull and suffocated.
Interpretation:
Some men will give up 'I don't need you' and go to another extreme - wanting to be with you forever. This disguise usually appears during the romantic or newlywed stage. If you think he really loves you that much and doesn't want to part for a moment, it's a mistake. In fact, such a man has a strong possessiveness in love, and he hopes that you will always be in his sight not because of longing, but because he is afraid of not knowing what you are doing.
3. I am very powerful, and I don't care if you recognize my strength or not
In ECHO's impression, the gentleman has always been confident in bed. After each task, he always asks ECHO to express his feelings. ECHO sometimes hesitates and doesn't know how to say it because her feeling is really average. At this moment, the gentleman would open his eyes wide and say, isn't it good? How do I feel like it's always so good, getting better every time.
My husband has always sneered at ECHO's frequent complaints about the insufficient duration and frequency of SEX. ECHO believes that the gentleman is too arrogant and doesn't care what he says, so he is increasingly joking about his sexual abilities. The gentleman's attitude is still tough, but ML's enthusiasm is decreasing.
Interpretation:
Almost no man in the world is satisfied with his SEX ability, just as no woman is completely satisfied with her appearance. However, even if a man has ED, he will never admit that he cannot do it. The weather is not right, my wife is not gentle, and so on. Getting him to admit that 'I can't do it anymore' is a deadly thing.
Although he always pretends not to care about it, it's best for women to understand that in bed, men care about women's feelings, and their praise is almost all the motivation for his efforts.
4. I am a skilled hand
Never mock your boyfriend for being a virgin, even if it's just a joke. "LILY always remembers his childish behavior when he first got intimate with him. After their relationship escalated, LILY joked that her husband was a virgin, and he blushed and argued with her, saying that LILY was the rookie. A few months later, my husband's body had an affair, and the reason was that he wanted to accumulate more experience and not be looked down upon by LILY.
Interpretation:
Another disguise for men on SEX is that I am a skilled hand. Boys over the age of 20 are already ashamed to admit that they are virgins, and they even boast in front of their same-sex friends about how many girls they have slept with and how many hours they have had a marathon battle.
Even if he had only slept with one girl before you, he would show confidence and understand how girls feel, guiding you how to do it. So, at this moment, you must not mock his childishness and follow his instructions.
5. My friends are all over the world
On his day off, if his phone doesn't ring for a whole day, he will feel like his life is a failure; Friends eat together, and he likes to answer his phone the most. Even if it's not important, he has to run to the side with a serious expression to answer it, giving people the impression of being constantly busy. Lulu dislikes these flashy little vanity of his husband and asks friends around him. It seems that everyone's husband is so vain and pretends to be a social expert.
Interpretation:
6. I am deep, I have meaning
Just * * * * * with women, what can we say? We need to be like Jay Chou? Bull? Don't follow Wang Leehom as a high-quality idol. "This is a declaration from a new generation of male students on a certain forum.
Among the younger generation of boys, pretending to be deep may be a more popular form of disguise. They often dress up as if everyone is drunk and I wake up alone, thinking for 12 hours a day, even when everyone is telling jokes. This way, boys were described as cool in the past, but now they are described as being pulled. Their heterosexual relationship is extremely good, and they are both a girl and a mistress killer.
However, if a girl is fortunate enough to delve deeper into his development, she will find that when he is thinking, his mind is actually blank; He doesn't want to talk, actually it's just because he's lazy; And his so-called contemplation of life is actually nothing more than what to eat for dinner today. This is just a growth stage in his life!
7. Pretend to be humorous and promise casually
"How about buying a house next year?" "No problem." "Go to get a marriage certificate on November." "Good." That's how Weiwei's boyfriend casually promised. Even if Vivi said, 'I want the star in the sky,' he wouldn't hesitate to say, 'I'll pick it for you.'.
However, if you ask afterwards, eh, didn't you promise, why didn't you do it. He would pretend to be innocent and say, "Ah, you're serious, I thought you were joking." Vivi thought her boyfriend was being hypocritical, but he said, 'I'm saying this to make you happy.'.
In the relationship between men and women, what men are most afraid of is not being dumped but arguing. Because they really can't handle women's sharp tongues and careful thinking. Commitment is an unbearable burden for men, but women seem to be all "commitment maniacs". If they don't agree, they will definitely be wearing the hat of "Do you still look like a man.
So the man disguised himself as "very humorous", constantly promising women but only thinking about how to escape. Facing such men, if women are not strong enough or not ready to get along with them, it is best to avoid them.
8. Tough guys just do it, not say it
Mr. SALINA is a silent man, and his theory is that talkative men are unreliable. Even at the wedding, the emcee asked him if he could take care of the bride for the rest of his life, and he answered in silence, causing everyone to feel embarrassed. SALINA was deeply concerned about this, but he didn't care.
I said I love you for ten thousand years, and you believe it? It's really literary! "He said that SALINA is not practical and childish. As we spent more and more time together, SALINA realized that he had a deep sense of responsibility and obligation in his heart, not as he initially feared not to promise or fulfill his promises.
Commitment is a man's shackle. Psychologists believe that men can never escape their boyish temperament fundamentally. They need maternal love and care more than SEX, and their desire for freedom is more than success. A gentleman's words are hard to recall, "is the education given to them by society.
As soon as words are spoken, they must be realized, but who can predict the variables involved. So they would rather die than speak. In a man's life, there may only be one or two solemn promises, which are enough for them to endure. I can do it, why must I promise you? "There was actually another voice in my heart saying," What if I can't do it.
Compared to men who pretend to be humorous, men who pretend to be tough are more sensitive and fragile in their hearts, and also have a stronger sense of responsibility. Therefore, women who want to have a real life are most suitable to spend their entire lives with them. It must be admitted that they are not as pleasing to women as men who pretend to be humorous.
9. Never admit mistakes
He's so strange. Usually when people joke together and there's no big deal, he always says pitifully that I'm wrong. When I really do something wrong, my mouth is as hard as iron, and no matter how hard you try, he won't admit it. Even when there's no argument to argue with, he still plays tricks and says something against me. "CANDY said with a disgusted expression. Indeed, she really doesn't like Mr.'s unreasonable attitude. He admitted his mistake, and I wouldn't think he was superior to him. On the contrary, he never admitted his mistake, and I would think he was too much
Men do feel inferior once they admit their mistakes.
Especially in front of the other half. They are very afraid of lowering their family status due to doing something wrong. Because men have little confidence in their family status. Does my wife love me because of admiration? "" In the eyes of children, am I considered a successful father? "Are always questions that have troubled them.
Fear of the loss of authority makes men like to act as infallible diehards, both at home and in social activities. This is indeed maddening, but women don't have to be afraid because they have another explanation in their hearts: 'I will correct it in the future, why must I say it?'.
10. I am a man, who am I afraid of
At first, it was his boyfriend who pulled Alai to watch horror movies together. After watching, he asked Alai if he was afraid or not. Alai was naturally nervous, so he said he was not afraid. My boyfriend looked disappointed. Are you afraid? "Alai asked. There's nothing to be afraid of, I'm a man! "My boyfriend answered with an iron bone, so watching horror movies became a typical dish of their love.
After marriage, my mother-in-law suddenly mentioned the various quirks of her ex boyfriend. He's so strange. Every time he goes out with you to watch a movie and comes home, he always goes to bed with the light on. "Alai suddenly realized and never pulled him to watch horror movies again.
There is no data to prove that men are braver than women, but men are required to be courageous from birth. The girl was scared to cry by the pet dog next door, and the adult said, 'Don't cry, don't cry, lovely little princess.'. If a boy is scared to cry, adults will scold and cry. As a man, you cannot be a coward. In elementary school, a group of boys jumped down from a high wall, and the one who dared not jump would be wearing a humiliating hat.
