Post Date December, 03 2023
In marriage and family, one of the most feared problems for men and women is extramarital love, because even if it does not reach the end of divorce, it will leave a shadow on each other for a lifetime. The following is a small story to tell you what kind of mentality is most likely to lead to people's psychological infidelity.
Repay
People with such psychological high extramarital love often receive help from the other party in some aspects, such as financial help, or the care of the other party's own family when the partner is not at home. He had no choice but to sacrifice his body, which resulted in extramarital love. In fact, since the other party sincerely helps you, it doesn't want to repay you. The other party is kind to you. Just remember it in your heart. Why give up your body?
Retaliation
There are many people who have extramarital love not out of their original intention, but a kind of vent when their mood is unstable to balance the imbalance in their hearts. Most of the reasons are that one party has an affair and does not listen to persuasion, while the other party actively seeks a third party in order to retaliate against the other party, resulting in an extramarital affair. In fact, since it is wrong to know that the other party has an affair, why do you look for a third party?
Use
Those who engage in extramarital love for this purpose tend to run for interests. Because of the relationship of interests, the two parties restrict each other, so that they use each other, collude with each other, and commit crimes in partnership, and become two grasshoppers on the same line. Neither of them can leave the other, resulting in extramarital love. In fact, as the saying goes, "Don't stretch your hand, you will be caught". Once the East Window incident happened and people were jailed, such extramarital love had to go to prison to "love".
Hedonism
Some people engage in extramarital love purely for the purpose of enjoying themselves. These people are often heavily influenced by western ideas or obscene film and television books and magazines. They think that if they are alive and don't enjoy themselves in time, they will be irresponsible for their own affairs, resulting in extramarital love. In fact, sexual liberation and obscene film, television, books and periodicals are harmful toxins. Each of us should consciously resist them, establish a correct moral and outlook on life, and not mistake arsenic for sugar.
The above is about a psychological factor that can easily lead to extramarital love. From these introductions, we can see that if men and women want to manage their marriage life well, they must put their psychology right and treat your marriage life with a scientific and healthy attitude, so as to avoid the harm of extramarital love.
