In fact, the best way to deal with men is

The principle of jealousy is very simple. When other children play with toys that we don't want to play with when we are young and that are dusty in the corner, we will take them back unhappily.

People are still the same when they grow up. If one day you suddenly find that someone who has been with you for a long time is so tasteless that it is a pity to give up food, suddenly someone pursues and admires him, and suddenly someone says to you, "Hey! Your boyfriend is very good!" In your heart, your boyfriend suddenly becomes very good! Some books teach people how to deal with men. In fact, the best way to deal with men is to do well yourself.

★ Let yourself live better. ★

A man is most afraid of a woman who lives better than him. The more crisis consciousness he has, the more surprises, expectations and challenges he has, the more he appreciates this woman.

On the contrary, if you think that you should squat at home like a yellow face when you are in love, call him three times a day, call him home desperately at night, and ignore yourself, and the focus of life is only him, then you are no different from the doll that was put in the corner to generate dust when you were a child.

So try to expand your life circle and friends circle, learn new things, enrich yourself, make yourself full of motivation and charm, be good to yourself, eat when you have food, drink when you have wine, and know when you have beautiful men.

I often don't understand why many girls who have made boyfriends are like being put in prison. They reduce the number of parties between friends and become social ghosts. As long as their boyfriends say they can't go anywhere, they will go home and wrap their feet. Of course, people will meet sex-forgetting friends, but too much of them will really end up without friends.

A friend's boyfriend said to her, "You can't go out with the Queen. She knows so many friends, I'm afraid it will be very messy." The fact proved that the mess was her boyfriend, who refused to let his girlfriend go out and gave her access control, and then cut off several women by himself.

The other is even better. He said to his girlfriend, "You can't go out for a drink. The bars are in a mess, do you know?" So she was at home, but I met her boyfriend at the bar door.

I have always believed that the chaos is people, never places. To put it bluntly, these men just don't have confidence.

You can play healthily in a very messy place, and if you want to do anything bad, you don't need to be in any very messy place, just at home.

★ Jealousy may be jealous, but it's not just jealous. ★

A man loves face very much. He is jealous of you, but he never says jealousy. If you want to live a wonderful life, you don't want to make each other jealous by hooking up every day. If you play this boring game more than three times, you will become an idiot. I admit that eating vinegar is good for health, but it has only short-term effects.

If you are afraid of becoming the person who "loves each other more" and is out of balance emotionally, you should try to make your life wonderful, full and busy, divert your attention, go out with your friends as much as possible, and don't wait for him to ask you out all day, and it won't be you who is out of balance finally.

Otherwise, you will do the same thing as him, if he can't understand you all the time. He always returns late for no reason. You also try to develop your own nightlife, even if you just go to the bookstore and watch movies.

If you are not used to it, you can wash your hair, wash your face, go shopping and buy clothes, and fill a bottle of beer in the convenience store downstairs.

Everyone can change tricks. As long as the goal is achieved, men just owe others to frighten them. They can do good every day and improve their feelings (when he has a sense of crisis, you will become the most authentic girlfriend). Hey hey, why not?

★ Men run farther and farther. ★

So I never believe that henpecking is effective. Henpecking is always the man who runs farther. Many men say, "I hate women to control him." But women always forget that men already have a mother and don't need another one, and turn themselves into his second "mother" to control him all day.

I once knew an outstanding person in the field of "Lethal Call", who set a record of 45 missed calls left on her boyfriend's mobile phone within five minutes, and was praised as a beauty talk for the time being.

Everyone guessed, "If you are so strict, your boyfriend must be as good as the tortoise and sun." Otherwise, your boyfriend can also have sex with three women at the same time under the daily killing call, so I am more determined to save my mobile phone fee.

The man said, "At the beginning, it was sweet for women to call. Later, it was sweet load. At last, it was only load."

You can do a small experiment. If you call your boyfriend at a fixed time every day, and then "deliberately" forget to call several times, the man will call himself soon, "Why didn't you call?" The tone seems to be like the caution, fear and loss when we were together, and can't help laughing at the end of the phone.

I used to think that women who are good at scolding men are very powerful. Later, I found that in the end, they will become habitual.

★ Men respect women who know how to respect them. ★

It's better to give him more space and freedom. Don't stick to him all day and call him to check attendance. It is strange that the more she likes to manage, the more her boyfriend wants to steal. The bad man said, "This is the challenge."

So, give him a challenge!

★ Please pay attention to the appearance! ★

Unless men are poked blind, they will be visual animals all their lives. Don't believe them saying, "I think you are so cute and don't need to lose weight. This is just the right way." Why is it so coincidence that the girl he looks at twice on the road is not a fat girl?

Don't believe they said, "Don't dress up too beautifully, don't wear a skirt, you are the most beautiful in my heart." How can it be so coincident that it is not Obasant who comes out to take out the garbage and doesn't make up when he sees more on the road?

So, please pay attention to your appearance. Even if you have a good head, high knowledge, extraordinary temperament and excellent conversation, no one can see that you have the above advantages when you wear no makeup, glasses, shark clips, Obasant pajamas and slippers.

In my life, I despise men who don't let women dress up. They always say, "I don't like you to wear this to others." Some women also foolishly think that men love her more and value her more. In fact, men simply regard you as their property.

A man with confidence actually wants his girlfriend to look beautiful. He is not afraid of others paying attention to you, and he is not afraid that you will be threatened if you are looked at more. Why can't you make yourself beautiful?

If he loves you, he should hope you feel beautiful too.

Don't be afraid that a man will envy you. The more beautiful you are, the more he will declare sovereignty, "Hey! This beautiful woman is my woman. Stay away from her!"

You say, isn't this jealousy?

If love only leaves habits, the best remedy is to let him experience the joy of jealousy. How to deal with men? Do yourself well first!