Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband and I were colleagues before we got married. To be honest, I liked him from the beginning, but he is from another department of the company. We have never had the chance to contact. Now, I finally got my wish.
It's really hard to talk. Others are worried because their husband's sexual ability is not strong, but I am worried because his sexual desire is too strong. My husband and I are college classmates. After graduation, I returned to my hometown for development. My husband also came with me. After two years of work, we had a certain economic foundation and chose to marry. We don't spend as much as others when we get married. We try to reduce our expenses on the wedding as much as possible, and spend the money we have saved on our honeymoon abroad together. It is most valuable to spend on ourselves.
Our honeymoon lasted for half a month, and my husband had to sleep together almost every night. Sometimes when I came back after a day's play, I wanted to fall asleep, but my husband was still very happy to suggest that I should not be disobedient as a wife. Every night, he used a massage stick to suggest that I slept together, but my husband's interest remained unchanged. If I am not satisfied with my husband with such strong sexual desire, I am afraid that he will go outside to find a woman to satisfy himself, so I have to reluctantly comply.
In order to find out why my husband has such strong sexual desire, I secretly went to the hospital to consult the doctor behind his back. The doctor suggested that I and my husband do something else to divert his attention. After returning home, I proposed to go out for a walk after dinner according to the doctor's suggestion. My husband readily agreed. After taking a walk in the community, he returned home. He seemed not willing to have sex. I secretly rejoiced that it was really useful.
In fact, I know that my husband loves me so much that he always wants to be intimate with me. But in my opinion, sex life is definitely not a necessity of our life, but a condiment. In addition, I have a strong personality and am more competitive in my career. Therefore, I am tired of doing business in the company during the day, and I really have no experience to cooperate with him at night. But I know that if I tell my husband directly, he will feel very embarrassed.
Last time I talked with my girlfriend about this matter. She said that she wanted me to develop common hobbies. For example, if my husband likes watching basketball games, I would accompany him to divert his attention. Every basketball game takes a long time. This move really worked. Later, we had a special communication because of this matter. My husband said that he liked me so much that he couldn't control himself. I was happy to hear it. Later, we agreed on our attitude to this matter, and we had sex twice a week.
Now I know that the communication between husband and wife is so important. We have tasted the sweetness of this communication. I hope that we can communicate with each other so easily in our future life. Only by telling each other our troubles can we really solve the current problems. Now we are all thinking about doing good for each other. This is my happiest thing.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
