I lost my mind and betrayed my husband for 200000 yuan, and now I regret it beyond measure.

My husband and I met during work, and everything went smoothly from falling in love to getting married. At that time, I was young and had a very simple idea. I thought it would be a wonderful thing to marry someone I like, without considering my future life. After marriage, I became pregnant and stayed at my hometown to have children. My husband left his hometown and went out to work alone.

When in love, I rented a house with my husband and lived a comfortable life for both of us. There was no pressure. I saved part of my monthly salary, and the other part was for eating, drinking, playing, and listening to beauty. But after getting married and having a child, everything changed. I stayed in my hometown and lived with my parents-in-law. The old man's thinking mode is completely different from mine.

Every day, they chatter incessantly about small things such as fuel, rice, oil, and salt. The cost of living that my husband called me is not as good as the cost of living that my mother-in-law saved. "I need nutrition during pregnancy, and eating all day is like coping with it. If I can't finish the dishes, I still have to save them for the next meal.". "I am a person with a cleaning habit. I have never had an appetite to eat leftovers together. My mother-in-law saw my mind and said that I was too sentimental and had not lived a hard life. When their family was poor and hungry, let alone eat leftovers, I could only have a dry and hungry stomach.".

I was in a particularly bad mood after listening to her. On the phone, I kept complaining and complaining with my husband. My husband asked me to accommodate the old man, and when I had a baby, I took the baby to him. I endured it until I had finished giving birth. After that, when the baby grew older, I took the child to the place where my husband rented a house and lived together. "Because I have children with me, I cannot work. I only rely on my husband to make money alone, which is very weak. The money he earns is not enough for a month's expenses.".

"It's true that the phrase" a poor couple has been declining for a hundred days. "Because of the money issue, we have had disputes and frequent arguments, so that I am increasingly dissatisfied with my husband.". "My heart keeps popping up with the phrase 'Husband is incompetent,' and I kind of despise him.". When my child was 2 years old, I handed over to my mother to take care of the baby. My mother-in-law was so frugal, and I was worried that the child would be stunted by her. Due to my anger with my husband, I left him to rent a house and find a job alone.

My husband has been calling me to urge me back. "I blacked him out in a fit of anger, angered him, and left me alone.". During my work time, I met my boss, who is about 45 years old and 15 years older than me. He looked at me as a woman alone and pitifully cared a little more about me. "I also haven't been cared about for a long time, and I was grateful for it for a moment, but I accepted his care. Once we came and went, we developed a relationship between men and women.".

At that time, I completely lost my affection for my husband, and even slept with this old man feeling justified. Later, he gave me a card with a total amount of 200000 yuan and said that it would be great to keep our relationship in this way and not talk nonsense about it. I understand that he has always raised me as a lover. A year later, apart from occasionally contacting my family and asking about the children's situation, I cut off all dealings with them.

My husband didn't know where to find out where I lived. The moment he knocked on my door, I was stunned because I was sleeping with that old man. "When he saw the scene in front of him, he gave me a direct slap. The noise was so loud that he woke up his lover. His behavior surprised me, so I packed up my clothes and fled in a hurry.".

My husband yelled at me and threw me a passbook, saying that it was saved between his parents and his teeth and he was planning to buy a house in the county town. The down payment was just enough. Today, that's what I'm talking about, but I treated him like this. Looking at my runaway lover and angry husband, I suddenly felt a sense of guilt. The next day, I lost my job and my lover refused to see me.

I packed my bags and went back to my hometown, where I received my husband's divorce agreement. Now, I really regret doing this. In a moment of anger, I personally destroyed my own home. What should I do to win his forgiveness?

reply:

"The relationship between people is not measurable by money, because your assessment of poverty is that your husband is" incompetent. "Use the way of disappearance to vent your dissatisfaction with your husband.". Selfish thoughts can make your marriage a bit closer to the edge of the cliff. The pursuit of a good material life has led you to abandon your self-esteem and become willing to be a third party that is spurned by others.

Your husband works hard to make money, which is to change the status quo and make your marriage more harmonious. Your apathy makes your husband's heart ache, and the arrival of your intrusion makes you defenceless. Now, your unbearable identity has been revealed, and his frustration, anger, and heartlessness are all the consequences of your selfishness.

A woman's infidelity is a great shame to a man. For your own happiness, try to win the forgiveness of your husband, fulfill your wife's responsibilities, and perhaps have a chance to turn around.