I cheated and suffered the consequences of my own actions. I got lost and begged my wife to remarry. After my wish was fulfilled, she gave me a green hat

I started to venture out after graduating from high school. That year, I was nineteen, and my immature face was filled with longing for the future. I started working in the factory, working on a boring assembly line every day, which made me physically and mentally exhausted, especially when it came to those small parts. I felt like my eyes were going blind. For the sake of life, I am not afraid of hardship. The leader arranges overtime, and I never say a "no" word.

I have a baby face and am hardworking and capable, which makes the leaders in the venue very fond of me. After work, we often eat and drink beer together. They joked with me and said they wanted to tell me that the girl from a certain workshop would be my daughter-in-law. I readily agreed that I had fallen in love with the girl they were talking about, who is my current wife. It was also at that time that I fell in love with the atmosphere of drinking, and when I was free, I always liked to take a few sips. Because of drinking, many things have been accomplished and many things have been missed.

At the age of 25, my wife and I got married and had children. I spent another five or six years wandering outside, accumulating a lot of connections and starting a business on my own. I also contracted a lot of shops and rented them to people who do facade business. When it comes to business, drinking is inevitable. When I get drunk, I become confused and inexplicably have a relationship with a little girl. Later, that girl got into it.

I originally wanted to give her some money to send her away, but to my surprise, I couldn't do without this girl. After my wife discovered it, she made a lot of noise and scolded me in front of everyone as "ungrateful and shameless". An extramarital affair was like a drug addiction, and it was difficult to let go of it. My wife saw that I was determined to be good to others and proposed a divorce. My property was divided in half, and she left with her child. I quickly cohabited with my lover, but she refused to accept my marriage proposal.

After living together for three months, I found out that she had an affair with a boy on her phone. After inquiring, I found out that the boy was her fianc é e, and she disliked him for not having the skills to get along with me. I suddenly felt that the girl in front of me was so terrifying. She had betrayed her faith for money. After careful calculation, I have given her no less than 100000 yuan over the past few months. I broke up with her decisively, and I found my wife to repent, kneeling in front of her like I did when I proposed.

My wife hesitated for a moment, and a week later, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the procedures. After this time, I cherish my marriage very much and let her do everything and follow her. And she seems to have lost her patience with me as before, never asking about my life, let alone caring about me. Her private world does not allow me to enter. Only when there is a shortage of money to spend will they take the initiative to show kindness to me. I feel that her behavior is very abnormal, and I have communicated with her many times without any effect.

Later on, I learned that she had raised a little white face outside. I collapsed. My virtuous and virtuous wife, who used to be so virtuous, has now become so depraved. I unraveled her true colors and she cursed me fiercely, "This is your deserved retribution, and I want you to taste the taste of betraying your loved ones. Hey, what am I supposed to do? I don't want to see my wife fall down like this, it's all my fault. Why did she torture herself like this? Please help me.

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

Love is as deep as hate. Have you considered your wife's feelings when you quickly cohabited with your lover after divorce? You can't wait so much, how should she feel as your wife? Do you know? Now that you have lost your way, your wife's hatred towards you has accumulated layer by layer, accumulating to a certain extent, and all of it has erupted for you to see. It can be seen that her infidelity is not really emotional, but rather wants you to taste the taste of it.

I suggest you comfort your wife well, let her change her mind, maintain enough patience and attention, and pay for your own mistakes. Of course, if you can't bear this shame, you can apply for a divorce again, so you can still get relief.