My wife and I have been married for eight years, and when we got married, she was not a virgin anymore. I didn't say anything and she didn't explain anything. This didn't affect our future lives.
Later, I learned that my wife had two boyfriends before marriage and had sexual relations with one of them. I don't know how long it will last. After marriage, everything in our lives can be normal.
The problem occurred when I was on a business trip this month. I had expected to be on a business trip for 9 days, but it went smoothly. It took only 4 days to complete everything, buy a lot of things for my wife and children, take the train home that night, and arrive home the next afternoon. I didn't tell my wife on the phone, but I wanted to make dinner and wait for her to come home to give her a surprise.
The home is still as tidy as before. When I entered the bathroom, I found my wife had left a basin of unwashed clothes. Since I still have time, I should wash them. As soon as I picked up the clothes from the basin, there were two pairs of underwear that I had never seen before, one of which was a black, thin, transparent type of briefs, and another was a fleshy colored lace cut out briefs. Since my marriage, my wife has never bought underwear of this style, There is no need to go through it.
At this moment, I had an ominous premonition. I quickly took a look at what was different in the room, and everything was normal. At that moment, I suddenly thought of the garbage can and poured the entire garbage can out, not afraid of getting dirty. Sure enough, in the used toilet paper, I found five used condoms for something I didn't want to see. My brain suddenly went blank, and my heart ached. I don't know how long it took, I put these things back where they were and left home with my things.
After going downstairs, I called my wife and calmly told her that I would be home in the evening as usual. Why didn't you call me in advance? I could feel her nervousness. When I got home at 6 o'clock, my wife gave me a warm hug. The meal was ready, her clothes were washed, but I didn't see those two pairs of underwear, and the garbage in the trash can was gone. My heart really hurts, I can't believe it's true. What should I do?
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)