Post Date December, 03 2023
I broke up with my boyfriend for a month. After breaking up, I found that he was the man most suitable for me, and I wanted the most! I met him on a blind date. When I first met him, I just broke up. That relationship was very hurt. It was a third, so I felt insecure. My family has the same economy as his family. I am the youngest. My parents love me very much at home. My brothers and sisters love me very much. I am outgoing and lively. I give everything good at home to me. I also feel very natural. He is the eldest and has a younger brother in his family. His parents are strict with him and he works hard. However, he is introverted, not very talkative, but very considerate and good-tempered. He works from Monday to Saturday as an IT worker in Zhangjiang, Shanghai. He works overtime until 10 o'clock every day and occasionally works on Sunday;
My hometown in Hubei is a state-owned enterprise, working nine to five.
At the beginning of my love, I felt insecure in a different place. He said that he was good-tempered and I always challenged his limits. After three months, he began to get tired of me. In the past, we called for one or two hours every day, even after 10 o'clock. Until 12 or 1 o'clock at night, everyone else slept, and he talked with me almost every day. I may not have considered his feelings. He has to get up at 6 o'clock every day to go to work. He said that he was tired, but I didn't care. He said that he would break up if he was a little upset, and he was silent and said that he would not deceive others. Then he broke up. I don't understand. What's wrong with me? After breaking up, I found that I love him very much. He is what I want. I resigned and came to Shanghai, and then I realized his hard work. When I went to find him, he didn't agree. He said he would die in Shanghai and wouldn't come to see me. I have also consulted some marriage agencies, but they have not been recovered. What should I do? I must save it?
Weiqing Consultant:
I can see from your description that you have a firm attitude now and must be saved. You can first consider a question, why did the previous consulting agencies not help you get the results you want?
You have different personalities and different life paths, which have a great impact on your family life. Moreover, your first love has just been broken up by the junior three, and you have no sense of security. So you have been challenging his limits, and have been tired of you since three months. Have you thought about it properly? There are many different places in different places. It is difficult to experience them personally. What about after coming to Shanghai? It's not true that women say 10000 breakups, but it's true that men say one breakup. What did you do after you came to Shanghai, and how did other institutions help you? I need to know the details to help you analyze it. Now you need to know that it's an ex-boyfriend, not an incumbent. What you need is how to start over and let him know you again. Of course, if you want to change yourself, you can only get what you want by giving the other person what you want. In love, two people are equal. No one is born to be good to you. Many times what you think is just what you think. Repeat the old
The behavior will only get the old result. So if you want to find your love back, the first thing is to change yourself. If you are willing, I hope to find your happiness as soon as possible! come on.
