I am looking forward to being righted for a boy who has a child, but he said I am not worthy to be a wife and can only be a lover.

Reader's Letter:

Brother Shan, what I'm confused about is that the man I love has a wife and children. "But we fell in love and cohabited. Later, I gave birth to his child, and later, when his wife learned of it, she called to scold me and threatened to sue us.". I got divorced because of his intervention, but he didn't leave. "A man is afraid, so he says she has no work unit and walks barefoot. What can I tell you?"? Later, his wife also lost her message. What should I do? "I gave birth to my child in pain just to get them divorced. What should I do now?"? I am very confused. "Because I still love each other very much, sometimes when I make a phone call suddenly and he doesn't answer it, I get angry and call his wife to let the man come to see the children, and the woman doesn't divorce. I feel very painful.". Please point out

"I feel like I'm in love now, unable to eat well, unable to sleep.". It pains me to remember that they are still under a roof. The lover also said, "If you treat me right, we would have married long ago.". The thing is like this: Because of my heartache, I met a netizen online and told him about my pain. Why can't people in love be together! Later, netizens got me drunk and had a relationship. "I didn't mean to let him know about this. He was very angry and said I wasn't worthy to be a wife. I begged him to forgive me.". Later, we had a child, but he took it very seriously and said that I couldn't keep my loneliness and could only be a lover!

"I still very much hope that he will marry me, and I am not too young to withstand the wait of time. He also said that if I cheat again, I will not be forgiven!"! "But I still can't let him go. I love him, invite him to dinner, buy clothes, and buy things for his daughter.". I'm puzzled, what does his wife really want? Why not divorce? What does the man think? Alas, it's so painful. Please give me some advice. Sometimes I want to step back, but when I think of the happy times and the days of love, I can't let go, it hurts like a knife. What on earth does his wife think? "I divorced him but he didn't leave, and I couldn't get over it in my heart.". And what do I really want to know about his wife? Why don't men divorce after having illegitimate children outside? Just talk about it and it's over? Please give me some advice and look forward to your reply. Thank you.

reply:

Hello, thank you for your trust in Sam. That man is right. You are not worthy of being a wife, but only a lover. In fact, in my opinion, you are not even suitable for being a lover, because you have a mind to replace the man's wife and are unwilling to only play the role of a lover. Therefore, you use the most vicious and foolish method of having children for the other party to retain a man, and the result is not effective. Isn't it sad and urging. In fact, in the eyes of men, all women who are junior three are not worthy of being wives. It's okay to play with you. If you seriously ask him to marry you, he won't do it.

"Although you have given him flesh and blood, your intentions are not bad, and the price you have paid is not great, but what you have done without his approval is useless.". Smart men all understand that a couple is still the original match, and falling in love with a third party is only a fool's idea. As for what his wife thinks, it's his wife's business. They just don't want to let you go. They just want to control your anger. What's wrong with them trying to fight you and defeat the junior to maintain their orthodox position? Is it wrong? "You took the lead in choosing to divorce this man. That's because you're willing. You're not rational enough, and you can't handle your imbalance.". "What's an illegitimate child? Speaking of us, ordinary people, even if Jackie Chan, a big star, has illegitimate children. Although his son should recognize him, he can still not give Lin Fengjiao any status. After all these years, Lin Fengjiao has not been able to bear so much loneliness and loneliness alone with her child.".

For this reason, please don't always think about what others think here, or think about yourself in the future? If that man just doesn't give you fame and results, what will you do in the future? What will you do if he doesn't even recognize the child? Think about not being embarrassed and regretting? Many times, it can only be said that heaven's iniquity can still be violated, and self's iniquity cannot live.