Post Date December, 03 2023
My father is in business and only married my mother in his thirties. "My mother is seven years younger than my father, and she is very beautiful. I also look like my mother, so to speak, I am born beautiful.". My parents were just my daughter. When I was young, they might have been bent on training me to become an artist, enrolling me in piano classes, dance classes, or whatever. However, I didn't have any artistic skills, and ultimately didn't live up to their expectations. But I didn't learn these things for nothing, at least cultivating my temperament. However, I did not completely disappoint the hopes my parents placed on me. During the college entrance examination, I successfully entered a university in the north.
"I am a science student, but I am not as rigid as most science students. In the words of my classmates at that time, I am an active person.". I think it may have something to do with my previous studies of art. An active girl can attract attention everywhere, not to mention my beautiful appearance and good temperament. So when I first entered college, there were many boys hanging around me. At that time, I often received love poems written by male students from the Chinese language department. Reading poems to female students in the same dorm every night before going to bed became a "required course" before going to bed. To tell the truth, none of those boys have a crush on me, and I think those poems are also very naive. Compared to them, I prefer mature men.
Perhaps it was because I was too arrogant that many boys gave up the idea of pursuing me. Only one boy in our class, Wen Dong (not his real name), struggled to pursue me.
A prank that kept him waiting for three hours
Wen Dong is a northerner who grows tall and has good family conditions. He likes to wear sportswear and wear famous brands all day, either Nike or Adidas. Wen Dong feels like a real man, and many girls like him. But I have no feeling for him at all. When Wen Dong first chased me, I even teased him.
I remember that just after military training, everyone was not very familiar with it. That weekend, he suddenly knocked on the door of our dormitory. He called me outside and grandly presented me with a bunch of roses. I didn't want him to shove them into my hand. He also bullied me to wait for him at the basketball court at 6 pm and gave me my mobile phone number. I've never seen a boy talk to me like this before. He walked forward and I threw his flowers into the trash can on my back. Of course, I didn't go out with him this evening, but I sent him a message saying to go and ask him to wait for me a little longer later. We didn't see each other until we parted, and then I turned off the phone. That night, he had been waiting for me on the basketball court, foolishly waiting for more than three hours. Later, the girl in our dormitory gave him a nickname "Silly Wait". Later, many classmates learned about this matter, which made him feel rather embarrassed.
After getting drunk, he became a "trophy" in his hands
People say that the less they can get, the better they feel about it. Maybe that's what Wen Dong was thinking at the time. The more he couldn't catch up with me, the more he chased me, as if he were competing with himself. In this way, he chased me from freshman to junior.
In the second semester of my junior year, I finally agreed to socialize with him.
Since I established a romantic relationship with Wen Dong, he often likes to appear with me in public places such as cafeterias. Once he asked me to accompany him to the library, where I saw him make an OK gesture to a boy from another department. "His actions didn't attract my attention until later, when I realized that it was a winner's gesture.".
After spending a month together, our school closed for the summer vacation. The day before I went home, Wen Dong asked me out for dinner. After ordering the dishes, he asked the restaurant owner for two bottles of beer. During dinner, he said he was about to leave and we couldn't meet for a month. He didn't know how sad it would be this month. Perhaps it was a girl's vanity that caused the trouble. I felt very comfortable listening to him at that time. That night, he started drinking slowly alone, and later asked me to accompany him. "I don't have a capacity for alcohol, nor am I on guard. After a few drinks, my head began to faint.". I remember him helping me out of the hotel and then taking me to a small hotel
It's too sad to chase for three years just to bet
When I woke up the next day, I quickly knew what had happened. But I didn't quarrel with Wen Dong. I calmly asked him if he was sincere to me? He replied positively that we would get married after graduation. That afternoon, I took his promise and boarded the train home. "That summer vacation was very difficult for me, and when I handed it all over to this boy, I actually became attached to him.".
It's easy to expect the beginning of senior year, and Wen Dong and I finally meet. "It's completely different from what I imagined. After more than a month's absence, I didn't find any joy in seeing me on his face. After that, he no longer took the initiative towards me as before, and I often went to find him.". I finally lost my temper and asked him why he treated me like this. I didn't expect him to disdain and say, "I'm the most annoyed with your arrogant appearance." I said, "What did you do when you chased me?" He said nonchalantly, "I'm the most annoyed with girls pretending to be in front of me, I just want to prove that I can track you down." I didn't know where I had the courage to raise my hand and slap him, but I didn't expect him to return and slap me.
Due to my innate pride, I didn't bow to Wendong. Although we met every day, he didn't talk to me, I ignored him, and no one said goodbye, our relationship ended up like this. Later, I learned from other people that Wen Dong made a bet with his buddies and said he would definitely catch me. If others didn't believe him, he would prove it to them.
Now, when I think about my previous practice and Wen Dong's childishness, I always feel like we played love at that time. But I lost quite badly in this game.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
