Post Date December, 03 2023
Noise has a seasoning effect on marital life. A life without arguments will be as plain as water, and there will always be a boring day. However, some women may suffer both losses after arguing with their husbands, ultimately leading to cracks in their sweet marriages. Although some women often argue with their husbands, the more they argue, the more they fall in love, and the sweeter they become. Through their arguments, they gain mutual understanding and understanding, and their emotional index continues to rise.
Six philosophies in marital noise:
1. Junzi speaks without action
It's okay to move your mouth when arguing, but don't do it. You may feel like you're a woman and it doesn't weigh too much, but only he knows whether it hurts or not. However, violence always ignites anger, and when anger reaches its peak, even a gentle pat can become a true 'war'.
2. Do not expose any shortcomings
Couples have been together for a long time and have a good understanding of each other's shortcomings. It is also the easiest, most crucial, and most emotionally damaging to expose their shortcomings. Let those shortcomings of each other be understood. Once a quarrel is exposed, the mutual understanding will disappear, not only causing serious damage to the self-esteem of both parties, but also potentially severing the bond of love between you.
3. Focus on the situation and do not dig up old accounts
Some women like to dig up old accounts when arguing, listing all the unpleasant experiences in their past lives in a precise and detailed manner. But women should not forget that men all love face, and doing so will only make them feel headache and even lose face, ultimately unbearable, and the relationship between husband and wife will inevitably be damaged.
4. Don't harm others
When arguing, never implicate the other party's family and friends. It's him who makes you unhappy, not his family. Moreover, involving family members during arguments can be very emotional and make you look very incompetent. What is the difference between such a woman and a street shrew? Maybe it will evolve into a family war, and then it won't be easy to end.
5. Domestic shame cannot be exposed
The problems that can be solved in the bedroom should not be brought to the living room, and the problems that can be solved at home should not be spread out. Do not learn from women who are not calm enough, complain about their husbands' arguments everywhere, and tell others about their husbands' shortcomings as much as possible. This not only makes the husband hold grudges, but also makes others laugh.
6. Do not compare old and new
When arguing, don't say that you regret marrying him, let alone that if you marry someone from the past, you may be better than you are now. Saying this will leave an unresolved knot in his heart, and even he may feel that if he marries someone from the past, it will be better than marrying you. Such a result will only prove that your marriage is a huge mistake.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
