Post Date April, 15 2023
My husband and I have been married for ten years, and my son is 8 years old. Our relationship has always been good, but since the beginning of this year, I have noticed that my husband has changed and is no longer so concerned about me. He always quarrels with me over trivial matters. I began to suspect him of cheating, but after secretly observing for two months, I couldn't find any signs of him cheating. So I tried to change myself and make myself more beautiful and feminine. Perhaps he thought I was getting older and no longer attracted to him, which was why he became even more indifferent to me.
However, my change did not win his favor. Instead, I became more and more prone to losing my temper towards me. Every time I argued with my neighbor's sister, she would come to advise me and help us adjust. She is a psychology teacher who has been very helpful to our husband and wife. Every time there is a conflict, he can persuade my husband to preach and then ask him to apologize to me. However, the solution to marriage is not a one-time solution. I can imagine my gratitude to my female neighbor. She is just like my best friend, she always enlightens me when there are any unhappy things. Sometimes I am so lucky to know such a good neighbor and sister.
But not long ago, I found out that every time I cooked delicious dishes such as pork ribs, my husband would send them to my female neighbor. Her husband has been on a business trip for a long time and only comes back once every two to three months. Every time he comes back, he hurriedly goes on a business trip. So many times she is alone at home. My husband and I often visit her house or ask her to come over to play. Sometimes when we chat late, she sleeps at our house and feels happy like her sisters.
On the weekend, I need to work overtime at the company. My husband is resting at home, and I have him keep an eye on my son's homework. I went to work with great peace of mind, but when I got home and chatted with my son at night, I asked him if he listened to his father's advice today and did his homework obediently. My son said that as soon as I left, my father went to the neighbor's aunt's house and he didn't know how to do his homework. He wanted to seek advice from the neighbor's aunt. When I entered my aunt's house, I saw my father and neighbor aunt lying on the same bed. Then the neighbor aunt quickly got up and asked me if I had anything to do with my dad. I said I didn't want to ask my aunt for help with my homework, so she came to our house to help me with my homework.
My son said this, and my heart was shocked. My husband was sleeping on the bed of his female neighbor. So I asked my husband what was going on. He didn't admit it and even scolded his son for telling lies. His son was crying uncontrollably, but he kept explaining. I know him well, there must be a problem here, their relationship must be abnormal. Since then, I haven't spoken to my female neighbor again, and I won't let her come to our house.
Until a few days ago, she knocked on our door and bid us farewell. She said she might not come back after moving abroad with her husband, and even gave me a handwritten letter. After she left, I opened the new one and she told me exactly what happened that day. It turned out that I really misunderstood her and her husband. She also said that if my son needs help studying abroad in the future, she will contact me from time to time.
I began to regret and apologize to her by phone, and hurried to the airport to see her off. On that day, our whole family was in tears. And my husband and I have returned to our previous lives, and our family is living a happy and enjoyable life!
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
