How to treat men without women? Women often wonder if men have any thoughts behind their backs. For all kinds of imaginary behaviors of women, men are really suffering. On the one hand, they behave well to make their lovers less sensitive; On the other hand, I do have some ideas, but I can't control my thoughts. So what do they most want to do with women behind their backs? To sum up, there are no more than the following 10 things.
1. Develop ambiguous relationship
Men are not satisfied, eating from the bowl and looking at the pot. No matter how well their wives do, they will still think that their wives are not perfect, or that others' wives are better. So they will carry women behind their backs to develop some ambiguous relationships, which may be between colleagues or friends.
Although men have the idea of cheating, many men have the lust but not the lust, and the courage to act is just a skipper, and they still want to have a complete family. Therefore, most of the time, men will only talk with other girls through mobile phones or QQ on their backs to make love.
Many men have their own "beauty confidants". They don't tell their wives when they are worried, but they can talk with other opposite sex.
2. Miss your ex-girlfriend
The ex-girlfriend is a wound in the heart of women and is regarded as a rival in love. Many men will say that they have no connection with their ex-girlfriend. But when you think about it, no one can erase all the memories of the past. After their quarrel, he will quietly miss his ex-girlfriend and compare you with his ex-girlfriend.
Men never fall in love only once, and men always miss the former women occasionally, and some of the more excessive will keep pestering with their ex-girlfriends without telling themselves.
3. Deposit private money
Men become bad when they have money, so many women will not let men have enough money. All the money earned by men should be handed over to women for safekeeping or for one person to earn money for two people. Women all follow a tenet: yours is mine, mine is mine.
However, men need money to socialize and develop some ambiguous relationships. Therefore, many men want to secretly keep some money that women don't know. Only by keeping private money can men have more and more private space.
4. External affairs
If a man tells you that he only loves you in his whole life, he is definitely lying to you. In this society, people think that it is rare for a man to keep the red flag at home and float the colored flag outside. Therefore, many men are willing to challenge and try their abilities to see if they can handle the relationship between the two women at home and outside.
Men all hope to have three wives and four concubines, so they will carry women behind their backs to develop another relationship and seek a romantic affair. The so-called man is natural to find a mate. There are always many men who want to have an affair even after they have a good woman. Of course, this is not for women to know, so you must be vigilant.
5. Find a confidant
When you are in love, you find that you have nothing to say between you; But after you get married, you will find that there are fewer common topics between you. What you say about you, he plays with him, and there is no intersection.
Men feel that the women in the family are too nagging. They talk about trivial things and don't know what they are thinking. So men need to find a confidante, who can listen to themselves and talk about all the good and bad things, and become their own trash can. She will listen quietly and give some pertinent opinions when necessary. Unlike the women in the family, it is endless.